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    Task Rabbit Game...

    There was this Boyz 2 Men song "I'll Make Love to You" in the early 90s. The video had some dude installing a security system for this lady. He left his card and said something like 'in case you need any help with the security system, or anything else..." she called for some additional services.
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    After a year long dry spell, would you keep waiting to bang a hottie or would you settle with banging a ugly girl?

    I pretty much had anti-game, I rejected women without realizing it. I had really bad anxiety and lack of socialization from a young age, awkward puberty and got made fun of a lot as a nerdy fat kid. Around 16 or so I got a lot better looking (pretty much stayed the same weight but got a lot...
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    It happens to all of us.......

    Yep, women are fickle. And sometimes you can do everything right and not "win." part of life that is very difficult for a lot of us to understand sometimes.
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    After a year long dry spell, would you keep waiting to bang a hottie or would you settle with banging a ugly girl?

    What was your reason? I'm going to comment more on mine later but for me I had lifelong anxiety and insecurity, got married to avoid being lonely for the most part, never developed dating skills, found myself in the inevitable dead bedroom unhappy beta marriage thing and not knowing how to...
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    After a year long dry spell, would you keep waiting to bang a hottie or would you settle with banging a ugly girl?

    Combination of getting married somewhat early, beta behaviors leading to deadbeadroom marriage, and the shifts in dating (see recent discussion on Greg Adams and huge changes since '90s or even 2010). I never really approached women until my late 30s because I didn't have to, figured since I'm...
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    After a year long dry spell, would you keep waiting to bang a hottie or would you settle with banging a ugly girl?

    I went through a 7 year dry spell once. So you can probably figure out my strategy. Can't say I recommend it, though.
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    Women love sex too

    Well, she might do it for you, too. Maybe not, but all that matters are her actions and not words about her "rules."
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    Your body/physique matters and what you can/should do about it

    I agree about reaching your genetic potential and being in the best shape you can be for yourself and your health in general. But when it comes to dating I did better when I was a little bit fatter and I've certainly been "beaten out" by dad bods (including on younger guys, which I do find...
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    Top ten things to start doing in 2021: 3 of 10.

    Some people follow their whims and chase happiness as the ultimate pursuit. We call these people women.
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    Read this one on reddit

    C'mon man. Having relations with multiple women and playing the field doesn't make Chad less attractive. If anything if he wants to settle down he will have a wider age range and looks range to choose from, and so on. And Chad isn't hitting the wall for at least another couple decades if at all...
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    video: The Surprising Psychology Of OnlyFans Simps

    Look, guys. It says "simps" right in the title. Rangermike explained it well in his comment. These guys are paying for the interaction and relationship. If you grew up with porn mags and/or VHS and were able to avoid the explosion of internet porn that coincided with social media and e-whoring...
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    Women from the past

    This is pretty common. I wish everyone the best but just playing with the averages and knowing the lifestyles of some women you can pretty much predict what and when this happens. It can help get over someone and move on. I find myself sometimes thinking "in 5 years she'll probably want me...
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    Tinder is 90% full of Attention Whoares

    IDK if it's my age or my niche, but I don't use Tinder at all anymore because I got next to no likes or matches at all, and if I did it was wrinkled landwhales. But on Match I get many many classy (no/discrete tats, educated, mainstream employments) women liking and messaging me, on FB Dating I...
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    What do you do when a girl you like is not physically available

    Then I would say you just have to move on and meet other girls. Should do that regardless, but if it's a girl nothing has ever happened with there's just no point worrying about her. We've all done it, but it's a waste of energy. maybe something will happen down the road, maybe it won't, but...
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    Is Online Dating Kicking Your Azz Right Now?

    I'm mostly an inbound marketer when it comes to online and I've been receiving a lot more messages than usual. If anything this time of year (plus add in COVID) has women antsy to make something happen, IME.
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    What do you do when a girl you like is not physically available

    I agree with the general consensus of the other answers but also think it depends on what you've already established. You say you're interested in her and won't be seeing her for awhile but have you ever been with her?
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    Ugh... The Red Pill Rage

    You could try taking "The Married Red Pill" like I did, but understand "the stay plan is the same as the go plan" and most likely you will find yourself going. Frankly, you'll probably end up blowing up yourself at some point because it takes a long time to undo years of betazation and you can't...
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    Megan Fox to divorce

    He got a hair transplant and started wearing dresses. Is that what passes for punk these days? I admit I haven't heard the music. Thought he was a lame rapper and generally uninteresting person before. I know he did some acting, think he played Tommy Lee in the Crue movie. A lot of women seem to...
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    Do men have friendzones?

    I've tried the "friends" thing with women, but it never seems to work. Sometimes if I know 100% I am not attracted to them and never could be. I think it's very rare that both parties are not attracted to the other, even if one or both are in denial. On that point specifically, I have never had...
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    Rejection Theory

    It depends on the context and your mindset at the time of the rejections. I grew up very inhibited and risk averse with tons of social anxiety. When you have social anxiety, avoiding embarrassment and rejection is the goal. Of course that avoidance is the worst thing you can do if you want to...
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