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    A Misconception about Marriage

    Having had 2 “marital experiments” consisting of 3 years and 21 years I have quite a bit of cogitating on this one. My first one was a joke, just plain bad judgment on both our parts. Weren’t together long enough to be AFC. The second one does fit what you state quite well. During the first...
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    Would you get married?

    Go for a third time? Nope. I’ve had two marriages; one for 3 years, one for 21. First one was good for a year, second one good for 15. For most of the 5000 or so years of the history of marriage people didn’t’ live too damn long. Get married young 14 or so, pop out some kids, die by 30...
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    not proud, but sharing anyway

    I’ll have to side with RedPill on this one. Don’t fvck your neighbors or coworkers. I think its AFC to assume that somehow the neighbor you fvck or coworker is somehow going to “work out” as some kind of LTR or even FB. Get real! 99% of the time its not going to work out. And if you...
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    I'm still stuck in AFC mode. HELP!

    Not often discussed on this forum, but the concept of needing a woman, being needy, extends beyond the simplistic emotional AFC needs; I’m talking childcare. This is a big one and many men assume the passive role, allow the woman to take over, and thus, need her for that role. Childcare is a...
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    things to do before you die

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    I'm still stuck in AFC mode. HELP!

    You don’t need a woman to take care of your kids. So, you don’t need to owe them anything. I’ve been a dad for 19 years now. Have 4 kids. For a long time now I have done absolutely everything with no need of a woman’s help. I enjoy the hell out of taking my youngest to birthday parties...
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    Has anyone ever just given up?

    Ah, now you are ready to begin. Perhaps you realize there is nothing to chase. Your effort fights itself. You push against yourself. You tire only because you accomplish nothing. Women see that you try so, they see your effort. They are not attracted to that. This summer, I stopped trying...
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    is a midlife crisis a wake-up call?

    Mid-Life-Crisis is a myth. Mid-Life-Crisis is a catch-all phrase that is applied to men who make any significant life change after the period western society has determined there should be no change. It is western society’s failure to recognize that human growth and development continue...
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    Defining a “Cold Approach”

    There are lots of threads here about “cold approaches”. But not too much on defining what a “cold approach” is. I think its important to know the difference so we can agree what we are talking about. From my own experience I have tried to classify it below. Degrees of cold approaches...
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    Safer SEX... darnit

    That’s a great set up line for a million one-liners…. Your bubble or mine? This bubble’s not big enough for the both of us…we need to do THIS to save space… You up for soapy seconds? Better watch it…I might pop your bubble. Are those bubbles real?
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    Looks like you guys still suck.

    Hey, SF, remember I tried to kill you with my great idea about using a baseball bat to drive with when your foot was messed up? Guess it didn’t work, you live. LOL I recall you were using your bad foot as an attempt to get pity-sex from your gf. Did it work?
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    Breaking the cycle?

    Although this forum has a large variety of info on self-actualizing, by default, the laser-focus is women. So, just by being here (as VU says) we feed the focus on women. I think spending a lot of time here can get one in a pattern of over-thinking and overanalyzing our relations with women...
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    I don't want this forum to get crappy

    Ok, ok, this is the second time you have requested this. So, what are we serving in this joint that’s soo good the kiddies can’t get in? 3 more years and I’ll start the AARP DJ forum.
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    Guys I think I Just Got a DATE!!!

    Your join date to SoSuave is 10.17.06. You, like everyone, says they lurked and read all kinds of sh*t prior to joining, but you made your commitment on the 17th. That is your start date. That is not very long to learn, or rather, un-learn years of incorrect programming. There is WAY...
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    Question for married men

    Unfortunately, unless you get more responses, a few won’t give you enough info to draw conclusions from. I think every case is different. I’ve had a couple of wives, couple houses, and a few apartments. I have been a photographer so either my stuff was on the walls or I picked the art. I...
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    How to handle the 'L-Bomb'

    Without getting quite a bit more detail you may get more generic answers on what to do. Like, how old are you? How many relationships have you been in? Have your sorted through many, many women and, hence, have a good frame of reference from which to judge when you actually do bump into a good...
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    What are the odds I'll meet "the one"?

    Getting back to the original post of the question of “What are the odds I’ll meet ‘the one’”? I’m hoping this was just a teaser question to get a reaction on a forum that has about a thousand threads on “the one” or “oneitis”. But, I’ll jump in anyway with my own teaser answer that I swear...
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    I want to forget the rules, I want to forget the tips! I need to be UNCONDITIONED FF

    Very well: I will tell you: but you, and many who love the sounds of their keyboards more than the sounds of conversations with women, will not like it: Immediately remove your hands from your keyboard and mouse; hit the power button on your computer; turn around and walk out the door to any...
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    A question for Latinoman

    My daughter is 17 and it creeps me out now to realize what obvious thoughts men have of her. I mean, this is my little girl, my child. Because I think/hope I am a good dad, I see her and even her weird friends as nothing but children. I have much more than this but it is so funny to go to...
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    The Blacksmith and the Woodsman

    Whoa, I think even Mr. T missed my point here. My reference spans both B Franklin’s original and Mr. T’s DJ interpretation. It’s all about comfort and the path of least resistance. And, most importantly, about making decisions, choices (some harder than others). The Woodsman was...
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