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    How often does a good one come around

    Same here as well. Last "keeper" was just over a year ago. Dated 5 others since then. 1 of them was a keeper that got away. (another guy got her first) Currently working on a new "keeper."
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    How To Get An Ex Back?

    Ha ha EXACTLY! One of my buddies slashed his ex's Timing belt.
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    Girl has HPV, Herpes and Not Jewish! Advice needed....

    Oral Herpes on the lips is very common. 90% of the world population has it. Not a deal breaker in my book. Just make sure you don't kiss her or let her blow you when she has an outbreak. Now if it was Genital Herpes, I'd be gone.... As for the HPV, you probably shouldn't eat her cootch.
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    Are you kidding?!? Considering your EX?!?!

    I agree with you completely j0504s. Exes are exes for a reason. And the ONLY reason we chump out some times to get them back is purely lack of options. At least for me that is absolutely true.
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    okcupid : what am I doing wrong ?

    Agreed. HedoRick. The level of quality from my experience: Match / eharmony OK Cupid POF - equally DTF possibly moreso than okc.
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    Emotional shield

    LOL I've yet to try it, but I will at the next opportunity. It makes them explain what they are thinking instead of having you volunteer info they may not want to hear. The last LTR I was in, she asked "where is this relationship going? (spot on 3 months) I basically said I wasn't seeing...
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    Emotional shield

    I had a similar thought process before I came here and learned better/tamed it. The thing is, make no thoughts like this until you've slept with them....it's a waste of time/emotion if you never get to the intimacy stage. And then...watch yourself. Don't volunteer/ask about "what are we?"...
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    How to deal with this girl??

    Perfect. This could re-kindle her interest and drop the other dude if you play it well. (you being a busy guy with other lady options) Keep us informed as to what happens if you do hear from her.
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    okcupid : what am I doing wrong ?

    Absolutely. Prior to getting over my approach anxiety/afc days it was very helpful in my growth/improvement. between 2008-2011 I could message 10 and get responses from 4 and date 2, then F close 1. Now you're lucky to get 1 response in 40 messages. There's now an overabundance of men out...
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    How to deal with this girl??

    Don't take ANYTHING she says seriously. Believe her actions NOT her words. VIDEO CHAT?!?!? You shouldn't be doing that (especially this early).....kills interest....you need to be the new mysterious guy. Video chat is wasting that time she would want to be spending with you....wouldn't you...
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    Do any of you guys own a fleshlight?

    I have. It's quite shocking how realistic it feels. Why wouldn't you use it if you had one? Better than any other method (hand etc..)
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    Help, girl does not like me being aggressive/dominant in bed

    Dude, if she's taking it THAT far, surely you can get her to go all the way. LMR = Last minute resistance....search for it on these forums.
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    Girl mad because I asked her to shave

    If you didn't get sex by the 4th date, you should have moved on. She's not that into you. Even girls that don't put out on the first (a good thing in my book) will by the 3rd or 4th if they are turned on by you.
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    okcupid : what am I doing wrong ?

    canned or not, you will get MANY that will go ghost even after a fun interesting conversation. It might even make it to the part where you ask her out then she goes ghost. Happens all the time. Get used to it. Just remember most of them are TOO FVCKING STUPID to notice a good/decent guy when...
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    Women move on pretty quickly after divorce, don't they?

    ya. I had a 1 year affair with a woman just before she divorced her husband and on before the divorce was finalized.
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    Field Report : gym pickup

    True, they will take off the earbuds and chat. For me gym game is a no no = $hitting where I eat. I had a thing going with one of the personal trainers then it went sour. It was awkard as all Fvck going there for a time. Fortunately she ended up leaving that job and it's back to normal.
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    Here is more proof that women respect players & cheaters

    Stupidity in it's purest form.
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    6 year age difference between me and gf

    Mine as well. I mostly date women 10 years younger than me whenever possible. The last few have been.
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    do you bang girls you dont really find attractive?

    I concur, but the sight of them without clothes on makes me feel ashamed/sickened afterwards... I decided I'd rather have my hand than see that.
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    Has anybody ever...

    I've witnessed this first hand in dance clubs abroad. Both my sister and her friend allowed it. The dudes were all much taller than them and "Pitt / Clooney" GQ looking.
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