How To Get An Ex Back?

[buzzin_frog]

I've been seeing all these ads that tell you how to get your ex back.

"Get Your Ex Back In These Important 5 Steps"...."The 3 Things You Should Say To Get Your Ex Back"...."Get Your Ex Back In Your Arms Now With This Great New System"...."How To Win Your Ex Back"

I even see threads where guys are asking how to get an ex back.

What a bunch of bvllsh!t!!

These guys that come up with this stuff are just hawking their eBooks to make money off vulnerable and gullible men!! It's just a waste of your time and money.

The only way you will get your ex back .....is if SHE wants you back!! No amount of steps, tricks, or words will help you get her back...if she doesn't have any plans of doing so.

There is no magic words or anything you can do to rekindle a dead flame....so why waste your time?

The question I want to know is....why would you even want her back?

Let's say you dumped her.....Obviously there was something about this chick you didn't like...that's why you let her go. She isn't going to change....the things she did that bothered you before.....will still bother you all over again. No need to dig back in the recycle bin for an ex that you threw away!!

Let's say that she dumped you....She dumped you because there was something about you she didn't like...she lost attraction for you...she dumped you for another man. Maybe she cheated on you....she probably treated you like crap at the end....she picked fights with you...became distant...made you feel insecure...lost respect for you....made you out to be the "bad guy" so she could get rid of you. So....why the hell would you want her back? She got rid of you because she didn't want you.....you think that she will want you back after she accomplished her goal? Why the hell would you want to go back to a chick who thinks poorly of you? Doesn't make any sense at all when you think about it.

Just for the hell of it......let's say the system worked and you got her back. She will dump you again if you still continue to act the same way as you did before. You need to change what you were doing wrong in order for it to work out again. With all the old baggage and bad feelings....it is really easy for it to go downhill again...so there is no need to revisit an old worn out relationship.

Instead of wasting your time with a chick you got rid of....or one that doesn't respect you anymore....start fresh with a new woman....better yourself in this new relationship...learn from your mistakes....find a better woman.....one that you can be happy with....because it will work out better for you!!

Some people hate to part with discarded objects...because they get attached to them...they will try to pull them back out of the trash....guys gets attached to their ex's...they don't want to let them go.

Remember that discarded objects are useless and should go in the trash!!

if your ex dumped you....that is what she did to you....she tossed you away in the garbage like yesterday's trash!!

So why the hell would you want to go back to someone that did that to you?

Save your time and money...get a better chick!!

Simple as that!!

 

[expos]

I guess I can chime in with a take on this...which involves a married couple I know of.

The woman I would classify as one of the most optimistic and adventurous people I have met. Very loving, sympathetic….but I’m not sure what she is like when she is one-on-one with her husband.

The man I would describe as a little flighty at times with a lot varied interests and hobbies. He puts 100% effort into things….then drops them all most systematically. For five straight months he would work on upgrading his boat, and then just sort of lose interest and start working on his guitars, remote controlled airplanes, or something else.

They had two children, and they had a brief split after 15 years of marriage. They didn’t file for divorce, but I think he moved to an apartment for 6 to 7 months….and then just moved back in….and now they are fine. This happened about 10 years ago and I never really got to the bottom of why this even occurred. They are still together

I would venture to guess that her feelings for him never really wavered when he checked out for awhile. She understands his flightiness and knew he’d eventually return. Who the hell knows what they did separately but it couldn’t have been that bad in order for the ties to not be severed.

I think what it came down to was such a history together that neither was willing to discard. By all accounts, they were pretty good people, which helps.

So in closing, it can work. It is not impossible. Sometimes people flake a little bit, but they know what they have, and just need to split for a little bit for personal growth. I personally wish more people would stick it out longer. People ditch relationships and withdraw at the slightest hint of conflict.

 

[j0504s]

I've been seeing all these ads that tell you how to get your ex back.

"Get Your Ex Back In These Important 5 Steps"...."The 3 Things You Should Say To Get Your Ex Back"...."Get Your Ex Back In Your Arms Now With This Great New System"...."How To Win Your Ex Back"

I even see threads where guys are asking how to get an ex back.

What a bunch of bvllsh!t!!

These guys that come up with this stuff are just hawking their eBooks to make money off vulnerable and gullible men!! It's just a waste of your time and money.

The only way you will get your ex back .....is if SHE wants you back!! No amount of steps, tricks, or words will help you get her back...if she doesn't have any plans of doing so.

There is no magic words or anything you can do to rekindle a dead flame....so why waste your time?

The question I want to know is....why would you even want her back?

Let's say you dumped her.....Obviously there was something about this chick you didn't like...that's why you let her go. She isn't going to change....the things she did that bothered you before.....will still bother you all over again. No need to dig back in the recycle bin for an ex that you threw away!!

Let's say that she dumped you....She dumped you because there was something about you she didn't like...she lost attraction for you...she dumped you for another man. Maybe she cheated on you....she probably treated you like crap at the end....she picked fights with you...became distant...made you feel insecure...lost respect for you....made you out to be the "bad guy" so she could get rid of you. So....why the hell would you want her back? She got rid of you because she didn't want you.....you think that she will want you back after she accomplished her goal? Why the hell would you want to go back to a chick who thinks poorly of you? Doesn't make any sense at all when you think about it.

Just for the hell of it......let's say the system worked and you got her back. She will dump you again if you still continue to act the same way as you did before. You need to change what you were doing wrong in order for it to work out again. With all the old baggage and bad feelings....it is really easy for it to go downhill again...so there is no need to revisit an old worn out relationship.

Instead of wasting your time with a chick you got rid of....or one that doesn't respect you anymore....start fresh with a new woman....better yourself in this new relationship...learn from your mistakes....find a better woman.....one that you can be happy with....because it will work out better for you!!

Some people hate to part with discarded objects...because they get attached to them...they will try to pull them back out of the trash....guys gets attached to their ex's...they don't want to let them go.

Remember that discarded objects are useless and should go in the trash!!

if your ex dumped you....that is what she did to you....she tossed you away in the garbage like yesterday's trash!!

So why the hell would you want to go back to someone that did that to you?

Save your time and money...get a better chick!!

Simple as that!!

It all goes back to the old snoring story....

Lets say you date soemeone who snores...oneday you just can't take it anymore...you break up....acouple weeks/months later...you make up have sex get back togeather....you goto bed that night you wake up at 3 am to her snoring....

THE PROBLEM NEVER WENT AWAY...so w/e the reason for the initial break up was is going to come back, it wont work out...it is very rare.

 

[JohnChops]

You'll never get your ex back. Exes are exes for a reason. Done deal.

 

[VladPatton]

Those ebooks/programs are for AFC's whose gf's dumped THEM and would give anything in their miserable, unaccomplished lives to get her back because they feel insecure with themselves to be able to get another girl. Guys whose entire lives pivot on the fact that they have a girl and are far from the fate of being single. Now, being dumped, their lives are destroyed, so they turn to such books and frauds to get their lives back, i.e., their girl.

DOn't ever buy into this büllṣhit. It's like all PUA material: it feeds off the desperation of others.

And yeah, I agree 100% in regards to dumping. Leave it alone and move on. Nothing screams "I have no options!" more than a guy who tries to rekindle something that doesn't work.

 

[May_Day]

I wouldn't pay 2 bucks to get my ex back.

 

[ScottMustaine]

Maybe if you lived in same town. Then you/she went away.


Then when she/you got back... Why not ?

 

[bigneil]

The best way to get your ex back?

Slash her tires!

 

[SamTheHobit]

The best way to get your ex back?

Slash her tires!

I threw a Molotov ****tail at my ex girlfriends house when I was drunk.

Ran my ass off.

 

[pdx1138]

The best way to get your ex back?

Slash her tires!

Ha ha EXACTLY!

One of my buddies slashed his ex's Timing belt.

 

[BadNews]

Don't.

 

[buzzin_frog]

I guess I can chime in with a take on this...which involves a married couple I know of.

The man I would describe as a little flighty at times with a lot varied interests and hobbies. He puts 100% effort into things….then drops them all most systematically. For five straight months he would work on upgrading his boat, and then just sort of lose interest and start working on his guitars, remote controlled airplanes, or something else.

They had two children, and they had a brief split after 15 years of marriage. They didn’t file for divorce, but I think he moved to an apartment for 6 to 7 months….and then just moved back in

Thanks for chiming in with your take expos!!

maybe the reason the husband split was because he dropped the wife like he does with his other stuff.

Marriages tend to work out more because there is more invested with them...kids, finances, shared responsibilities.

Some relationships aren't taken seriously anyway so nothing is lost when they are broken

No need to be crawling back to some wh0re or buying ebooks to get 'em back like some guys do!!

When a chick over steps her boundaries she should be gone....there should be no reason to want or try to get her back....she will just do it again later on....then the guy will feel stupid for wanting a second round of it!!

It all goes back to the old snoring story....

Lets say you date soemeone who snores...oneday you just can't take it anymore...you break up....acouple weeks/months later...you make up have sex get back togeather....you goto bed that night you wake up at 3 am to her snoring....

THE PROBLEM NEVER WENT AWAY

That is a damn good example....the problem never does go away

Especially guys who get insecure and turn beta/AFC near the end of the relationship!! Then if they do get back together...the chick will test the guy to see if he really did change....he never did change his problem of being beta/AFC...so the same problem occurs again....the problem never went away!!

You'll never get your ex back. Exes are exes for a reason. Done deal.

Some guys do get them back....but it is a waste of time...because nothing changes...the same sh!t will happen again sooner or later!!

Those ebooks/programs are for AFC's whose gf's dumped THEM and would give anything in their miserable, unaccomplished lives to get her back because they feel insecure with themselves to be able to get another girl. Guys whose entire lives pivot on the fact that they have a girl and are far from the fate of being single. Now, being dumped, their lives are destroyed, so they turn to such books and frauds to get their lives back, i.e., their girl.

DOn't ever buy into this büllṣhit. It's like all PUA material: it feeds off the desperation of others.

And yeah, I agree 100% in regards to dumping. Leave it alone and move on. Nothing screams "I have no options!" more than a guy who tries to rekindle something that doesn't work.

Great point here as well....I wonder how many guys try to get their money back after they were duped into thinking it was a done deal!!

I guess these guys are too blinded by their desperation to really think what is really going on. If she really loved you and wanted to be with you...she wouldn't be dumping you for another dude....then these saps think they still have a chance by reading an eBook to create some magic!! LOL

why would anybody want to go back to a girl they've already used up?

AFC chumps will do anything to get their girlfriend back if they have no other options.