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Without trying to sound gay, what do you guys reckon of my looks? I reckon I am pretty average looking-around a 5 or so. At least that is what I got when i put my photo up at hotornot. I have booked a hairdresser for Tuesday so that should make a difference. I can't really afford...

So do you reckon I should go for a beard. I have tried in the past and it turns out the same sort of gold colour as my hair. Can't pull off short hair as my ears stick out a little.

Yeah Aztec. I like wearing smart clothes, but feel a bit self conscious about it as I am at uni where everyone wears T-shirts and jeans-and asks me why I am dressed so smartly whenever I am dressed up. Yeah, definitely need a haircut, will book one next week.

Thanks ixnys. My hair doesn't behave very well as it goes all sort of wavy when I grow it long. But I have been wanting to grow it long for a long time, so will do that.

I was impressed by all the advice you gave skinnydart, so thought I would submit myself to the comments and advice of you guys. Here is a picture http://uk.msnusers.com/MattR Don't have a full body shot, but am pretty happy with my body: I am in good shape.

Oh and Blue Phoenix. You go on a lot about how you don't like narcissists. You should not let other people bother you so much. Trust me most narcissists aren't very happy at all. If you aren't one, be happy and try not to let those who are manipulate you.

Thanks Screwit, I recognise a lot of myself in your descriptions. I think too much, analyse too much, and always look serious and anxious. Recognition is the first step towards cure, so will follow your steps. Thanks man.

Thanks for the suggestions. But would like a few comments on my picture under the pictures thread, just for a few stylistic ideas? I was thinking of perhaps doing something different with my hair-maybe bleaching it or something.

I hear you Fighting Apathy. I only wish I had you guy's "problem". With good looks and game you guys can get some amazing women whom i could only dream of pulling. Scientific studies consistently show that women choose men of equal attractivenes although obviously there are exceptions (usually...

Will work on Maltz's book. I have posted my picture under the my pictures site. It is taken in a fairly dim room so is somewhat flattering, but is a pretty accurate representation of how i look. Any stylistic ideas appreciated.

congratulations screw-it. You seem to have made significant strides to conquering narcissism. I only wish i could have the same success. I shall try and follow your approach and change my thought habits as that is the only way to change my life. Unfortunately the habits of self-consciousness...

I got the most recent addition and skimmed through it. Cannot seem to do the visualising thing for some reason. The self-image stuff definitely hit home. It occured to me that i judge myself far too harshly. I also have problems with self-acceptance and esteem. I will try and apply maltz's...

Good job but i would recommend to any aspiring DJ that you read disciple's posts in their unabidged version. I have read them several times and each time a new insight is gained. There are some very powerful concepts in that post-the strongest of which is simply that no matter how hot or...

lol, I am 1,2, 5, 6, and 7 but don't really believe in checklists.

how long did yours take to go? It doesn't look too bad-it just looks like i spent too long in the sun. I can't see any logical reason for it as it is not really scarring and the acne is all gone. I read it was something to do with white blood cells being formed to attack the acne and...

lol, thanks diablo. I definitely have some self-esteem issues and am going to see a counsellor over the new year. But I have always been a loner, and self-esteem issues have only been a feature over the last three years when with adolescence came self-consciousness. Even as a child i was...

Is it possible to still have success with women, while having lone wolf tendencies? Out of the limited pool of women I meet socially I get a reasonable number of dates, but due to my lack of friends I don't really get to go out much and feel self conscious about going out on my own.

lol, i see you guys have also seen Slackers! Turn your room into a shrine for this girl with photos and candles. My take on this subject is that your biggest enemy is insecurity. Because she is gorgeous, gets lots of attention from men, and probably gets lots of offers, you will have a fear...

Thanks Blue Phoenix. I thought I sociopath was someone who didn't really like people. But yeah I am a bit of a loner. I have been trying for ages to change this, and it definitely is the major thing in the way of my being successful with women. I don't have many friends and hence I don't...

lol. It is a good question. I don't see the logic in having kids at the moment as they cost around $100000 dollars each to raise, you spend all your time doing stuff for them: driving them to places, etc. I often think it would be far better to take that 200000 dollars and spend it on having...