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  1. 4

    My ex BPD girlfriend dumped me

    You are more fvcked up than she is. Get into therapy.
  2. 4

    had a pretty englightening discussion with an ex gf

    I was at lunch with my sisters yesterday, and they were talking about a guy they knew. I've never met him, but according to them - he is young, very attractive, dresses very well, is very charming, and was a self-made millionaire by 24. Both of my sisters said the same thing - that they would...
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    The texting **** test

    If we walked away from a woman every time they give us a sh1t test, then, as Ease said, we would be perpetually masturbating. This is an opportunity. I think it's possible to let her know that she is being disrespectful by smiling and saying something like, "Surely you're not bored...
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    She cheated on her ex for me, BUT...

    Oops, I got this girl mixed up with the one in the "NC triangle" thread. I still think there are only two possible reasons she would "be ok" with a guy she is interested in dating other women, neither of which is good: 1) her IL is very low 2) she is a little nuts There is a big difference...
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    water sex

    Upside, I'm not saying it's the most responsible thing to do. I just hate condoms and I've been a little reckless because of that. In the last couple of years, I have sweated some STD tests, and paid for a few plan Bs. I've been fortunate that I haven't contracted anything or gotten anyone...
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    Giving A Woman Orders During Sex

    Maybe you're just subconsciously worried that she is too passive to ever express her own desires, and as a result, you won't fulfill them, and she will leave. But if that is the case, it's a flaw in her that you can do nothing about. But as others have said, maybe you are just experiencing a...
  7. 4

    water sex

    It's cramped anyway. Hot tubs are nice, but I've only done it raw so no condom experience. I don't use condoms nearly as much as I should. lol
  8. 4

    She cheated on her ex for me, BUT...

    Let's see: - she cheats (triangulates) - she lies ("I let my boyfriends date other women" - YEAH RIGHT) - she has object constancy issues (loses feelings for you because of 4 days NC) - she is clingy and wanted to see you every day You could be dealing with a borderline. And even if you're...
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    She said, "Let's take it slow, you can see other women." How should I react?

    How do you know this? Because she told you? And she is almost incapable of being jealous, yet she can't stand when you don't contact her for 4 days? And why shouldn't it apply here?
  10. 4

    My ex BPD girlfriend dumped me

    You should check out bpdfamily.com. There is a section there on deciding whether to stay or leave. You are also never going to "get her back" for what she's done. She is emotionally dysregulated. Whatever pain you may somehow be able to cause her, she can forget in an instant when her primitive...
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    She said, "Let's take it slow, you can see other women." How should I react?

    Can you provide even one reason that a sane, emotionally healthy woman with any real IL would encourage you to date other women? edit: Just realized that she cheated on her ex for you. Good luck making this one last. Just bang her while you can and enjoy.
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    No contact in a triangle: Experience report

    ... and some require less perfect circumstances than others. Were her and the ex broken up, or on a "break?" If not, then she is just another cheating wh0re. The sad thing is that you didn't bang her. Can't take her home? Get a hotel. Don't want to spend the money? Bang her in the car. Bang...
  13. 4

    No contact in a triangle: Experience report

    This. You dodged a bullet.
  14. 4

    Indiana Jones and the James Bond Complex

    ... until they hit 30 and get replaced by a younger, hotter model. If you think women truly have the power, your head isn't in the right place.
  15. 4

    Most chaotic, confusing, intense and "hot and cold" dating relationship I've ever had

    If she truly is borderline, she is addicted to the feeling of longing for love, and she will recreate childhood abandonment scenarios throughout her entire life. That is what she ultimately gets off on, because that is her "normal." The hot/cold/push/pull is the manifestation of their...
  16. 4

    Diary of a Madwoman (BPD ex makes unusual offer)

    Quit deluding yourself about your motivations. You are opening Pandora's Box and you will undo all the hard work you have done to get this unhealthy woman out of your life.
  17. 4

    Examine your concept of feminism as a male

    That's a shame, too. Some of the TED stuff is amazing.
  18. 4

    The 7 Levels of Disrespect taken from Tariq Nasheed”s “The Elite Way”

    When it gets to #7, perhaps you should be spinning some plates.
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    Dating advice from a woman that actually works!

    Atom Smasher, That sounds hilarious. I tried to find it on YouTube. Do you remember who the ad was for? This is not totally relevant but it reminds me of a funny story from college, about 8 years ago. Me, a couple of guys, and some girls were sitting around debating if women are shallow...
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    Will she cheat again?

    If a woman cheats on her boyfriend with me (whether he was meeting her needs or not), I would never trust her. If a woman breaks up with him for me, before anything physical happens, I could trust her.
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