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Thanks. I'm good. I'm spinning a couple of new plates and have slept with 5 other girls now since the ex. Doesn't mean I don't still want to bang her too though. You know how the crazy ones are. :)

I don't think you would disagree that women categorize men with labels such as: "creep" "friend/emotional tampon" "fvck buddy" "boyfriend material" ... and this happens rather quickly. I don't see anything wrong with the terminology of passing sh!t tests because the more tests you pass (and...

Had a fun pickup last weekend and thought I'd share what I did to get this exotic European girl (solid 9) to leave her male friends at the club and come home with me. I got bottles with a couple of guy friends, my friend's gf, and her friend. The club was absolutely packed so it was a perfect...

Thanks HeMan. Over the last few months I have spent a lot of time studying cluster B disorders, and understand BPD pretty well. I think it's clear from my posts in related threads that I have zero desire to have a relationship with such a woman. You can't beat a mental illness. I have not...

I just wonder how they respond if you throw their own crap right back at them. They want to start fights with you for no reason? Deny them that need for drama and turn the car around and drop their ass off (as Iceberg did). They want to triangulate you with some guy? OK. "I know how you feel...

Iceberg, I'm the type of guy that likes to push myself. Like, I have a fear of heights, so I'm skydiving at 18,000 ft next weekend. And I'm scared of sharks, so I'm going to Mexico next month for a cage dive with 15ft+ great whites. Just how I am. I like to be challenged and try to master...

Interesting post. It isn't her fault she's nuts. But it is her fault if she doesn't get help for it. The problem with these personality disordered people is that on some level they recognize that getting "fixed" would mean confronting themselves and destroying what little ego/self-image they...

btw cordon, I have started playing 5/10 NLHE now. :)

In the beginning it wasn't like this - I fvcked her and another girl in the same day, and didn't think anything about it. And my ex ex, I dated for two years, and had a FB thing with her for a while after and just didn't care at all. Crazy Latin women are my specialty I guess.

Alright, I give. Can't you guys tell me what I want to hear? haha Well said. I had this morbid curiosity to see if I could just turn off my emotions and do the sociopath thing. There are guys on this forum who seem to be very good at that. Perhaps I'm not one of them and it's not a challenge...

I was raised by a woman like that, so that is a large part of it. But just recognizing that is a big step toward shifting attraction toward healthier women. Like I said, I am already finding some of the same things I used to think were "cute" about her to be repulsive this time around. So the...

She's nuts and I know it. I have slept with multiple girls since I broke up with her, though none of them interested me nearly as much. I am 100% cognizant of the fact that she is not relationship material whatsoever. Part of me is viewing this as an opportunity to just harden myself up and...

btw, it seems lately that half the girls discussed on this forum are labelled BPD. So I am going to put her "symptoms" out there - you decide for yourself. Personally I think she is the typical BPD waif. - moments of childlike demeanor and voice - constant mood swings - hypersensitivity -...

A few months back I broke up with a girl and had a really hard time with it. Had some contact up to 3 weeks after the break up, then about 3 months of zero contact. Now she is back, exhibiting some weird behavior, and it's driving me nuts. Bringing back feelings I thought I had gotten over, and...

I have seen guys talking about adding girls they found on POF, and even girls they met IRL and are trying to fvck, as Facebook friends. But it seems that this is actually counter productive and can hurt you? I know in the past I was very liberal about adding women I was trying to fvck. And in...

Golden opportunity. Bang her and then bang her friend after she leaves town. Depending on how masculine of a frame you can establish, it may actually turn her friends on that you slept with her and also want to fvck them. I was in a similar situation, involving two girls (best friends) from...

Here's one of the funny stories I heard from a girl I dated last year on POF. 22, solid 8. This is probably one of the dumbest women I've ever met, as evidenced by this story: Her first date from POF - she agrees to meet the guy at his house. She comes in and asks to use the bathroom. He points...

I agree that you should just forget about her if you think this is a case of low IL, my response is only applicable if you think there is some interest but not enough comfort has been built yet.

You guys haven't talked on the phone? In my experience with POF, building comfort over the phone is critical to getting her to let her guard down and meet up. There are a lot of freaks and creepy guys on these sites (I've heard some crazy stories from girls I've met online), maybe she did...

I don't think anyone will disagree that there are men who are more comfortable dating 7s than 9s because they have more power over the 7s. So why is it impossible that some women will think this way? I am not saying it is healthy, or right, but it is a reality with some women too. The...