Don't ask her GF anything - and don't tell her GF anything - I made that mistake before - don't you.
You could very well be the rebound guy....
I would play it real cool. It sounds like she doesn't want to be back in a relationship.
Give her time before you call her. and apply...
Self confidence is implied here.
So you "Assume the girl likes you" - which get's you into the zone - your assuming the sale - so to speak.
You get the DJ attitude.
That's what an AFC would do - be hurt because some chick doesn't like you.
As a DJ you know your worth (confidence) -...
I agree...
I would say though that these "Rules" are neccessary for the RAFC - because without some guildlines they are no better off.
But your right - as you get beyond that stage rules such as:
Wait X days to call
Don't see her more than 1 time per week
Don't talk more than 5...
Not so. She was sitting by you and whispering in your ear during this camp right?
The seed has already been planted.
Now you tell us your in a room ALONE..... her ex is in another room with everyone else and you and her are in another room alone...
She's using you whatever the...
It sounds like she has some issues with BF/GF stuff.
Also I would say she's hiding you because of her parents - you have reason to believe otherwise?
Listen you are young. You've got lot's of time - just have fun and don't get serious.
Secondly - never ask her to be exclusive - let her...
You have figured out what you want - and that is awesome. Part of the beauty of all of this is that different people want different things.
I would say however, without starting another huge debate - that just because a woman doesn't have these qualities, is doesn't mean she's not going to...
Not neccessarilly.
It's very rare for any breakup to be "clean". I don't know this situation - but there are probably some phone calls going back and forth. Crying, pleading etc.etc.
Is there a house invovleD?
Kids?
Bills?
Material things to split up.
It's an emotional...
Tell her what you think and why you broke up with her.
She will not stop calling unless you lay it down to her plain and simple.
It'll probably help you as well.
I understand where you are comming from.
Nothing negative happened between us. There was no other guy - no cheating - no bad breakup.
She wanted to get married I didn't.
She took the smart route and wanted to break up.
I spent a long time with her - lived with her - and care about...
Listen to this little b#tch...
You want the truth....
It's funny really...
Guys like you are all the same. Your thinking your getting a virgin - a good little girl - but the truth is, she's more of a Ho bag than an Amnerican girl.
I've been there done that.
You've got your little...
Perhaps then you should not compromise - and sleep around - at least until you can get out of cellege or meet a woman that has not fvcked one of your friends.
You are obviously young(er) so I would say have fun now. Fvck these chicks and worry about relationships when you are older.
I think the opposite - it is important to find out your perspective GF's secual past....
You would not want ot be in a saituation where she fvcked those guys that you both know - and they know yet you don't. That would be fvcked up.
At least she was honest with you - you now know - so...
What the fvck is this?
Ban this piece of sh#t.
I've not read anything so fvcking vile and discusting as this. This guy is the bottom of the fvcking barrell. Whilst REAL men are getting their head cut off in Iraq - this piece of dung is branding around insults like he's some kind of BIG...
The only way to learn and grow is to make mistakes.
I never regret mistakes.
You shouldn't either.
Part of being a complete person is accepting yourself and your past. Accept that you've made mistakes. We all have wounds to carry.
Why regret it? it's made you the person you are...
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I saw "Spiderman 2" recently and it kind of summed up the way I'm feeling. I see the 9-to-5ers who the average lifestyle worked out for. I'm still ingrained with these notions of "true love" and "life's work" and all these things that have become a societal standard. I...
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