I'd wait another week, then give her a call. Either take her out somewhere where kino is built in (like ice skating), or invite her to your place. She may be more comfortable going out at first though.
I think it's fine...just make small talk, be a bit C&F, light kino every now and again. Let her see your sociable side with others though. Be careful not to get too close to her right now.
Would this be the guy you told about "being a DJ?"
And be careful taking advice on girls from girls....they don't always give the best advice. Trust me on that one. However, they can tell you a girl's reasoning for doing something.
You know...I was thinking the same. This would apply if you are in a situation where you will most likely see the girl again, but if not...what do you have to lose? The worst, as I see it, is that the girl will think that her behavior is ok, and continue to agonize other guys....but that's not...
I don't know exactly how you would act around her, but it seems like you acted too much like a friend, and therefore were put into the "friend zone." Then, you made if obvious that you were interested in her, but all she saw is a friend. So, it began to creep her out, and she decided she...
Yeah that's a pretty crappy situation there...
First and foremost: Will your friend have a problem with it? Your friendship seems to be important to you, and if it is, make sure he will be ok with it. These girls are everywhere, but your best friends are not. If it will bother him, stay away...
Something I like to do....
I'll say "give me your hand," and then I'll wedge a hershey kiss between their fingers and say "I just planted a kiss on you."
Not as an opener though.....although you could try I'm sure.
I don't think you need to worry just yet. It sounds like she had a good time, so take her out again. But MAKE SURE you get more physical this time, otherwise you risk getting LJBF. But I think you're fine for now.
There is a girl in one of my classes....whenever there is some free time, she always seems to come sit by me. I've only once had a decent conversation with me...she just comes to me, and SHE is always neg-hitting me. That's all she does. She thinks she's soooo hot, but she's really not all that...
Interesting....
I will be trying it. Be careful though....you know what they say about girls you work with.
Also, I don't think you should get TOO graphic....it takes away from her using her imagination.
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