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Hey man, at least you went out there and tried and that's more than can be said for most of the keyboard jockies on these here message boards. I'm not doubting that dbot's approach works for him, but I find that a more subtle approach works for me. I never explicitly mention sex. I just try to...

If you're looking for a virgin, you'd best find one from a culture in which pre-marital sex is still deeply frowned upon. In some Eastern cultures, this is still the norm. In Indian, Middle Eastern and various Islam-based cultures, it is still considered a huge disgrace for a woman to not be a...

What a crock of sh*t. Video games are a potential distraction, but to say that they are causing the downfall of men is quite absurd. A lot of those fat, good for nothings who eat potato chips and play video games all day would be engaging in some other sort of unproductive activity if video...

That sounds like a good idea in theory but women can cheat even if they are sexually satisfied. Think about it, even if you were banging the hottest piece of ass, you would still be tempted by hot women that you come across. Not everyone (man or woman) is capable of resisting the temptation.

There was a pretty funny post I read on this site that relates to this. Basically, some 25 year old woman claimed that she was gorgeous and was looking for someone making a minimum of $500k per year. A wealthy guy responded. He pointed out that there were a couple of problems with her offer. 1)...

The article isn't saying that older women are "better." It's just pointing out an often overlooked niche in the market. Obviously, we'd all prefer to get with gorgeous 21 year olds. But so does everyone! Younger women are generally more attractive than older ones, but there are some older...

I said I wouldn't brag about it to my friends. That doesn't mean I'm ashamed. Some things are just not worth bragging about. I don't know what the OP was referring to but obviously if you are banging a chick you must find her sufficiently attractive to arouse you sexually. That raises an...

If one has free will, then he has the choice to act or not act on desires. Sometimes men have the desire to bang "low quality" women simply because it is pleasurable. Now he could choose to forego this pleasure. But he could also choose to indulge it. Obviously if the guy had access to a higher...

If you are actually fvcking a girl, you must have some level of attraction to her. Maybe you might not brag about it to your friends, but the sensation of it is actually quite enjoyable; that's why you are doing it....you made a CHOICE to enjoy the pleasure. Sure you can make the choice to...

Let's go along with your food analogy. Do you suffer from low self esteem every time you eat junk food? It's possible to have some junk food and still eat an overall healthy diet. I love junk food. It tastes great. But I don't eat it in excess. I have 11% body fat, a 23 BMI and a 110/75 blood...

There's nothing wrong with "using" women for sex so long as you don't lie to them or decieve them. Trust me, lots of women are okay with having casual sex. Sex is a pleasurable act for them as well. A woman you hook up with a few times and never see again is "using" you just as much as you use...

It's sex. It's not a space shuttle launch. Yes, trying to find self-esteem in the number and quality of women you bed is a pretty bad idea. One's self-image and -concept should not be based on these things. But there's nothing wrong with having sex simply for the sake of pleasure. To that...

I think the issue here is comfort for the women. By your description, you are having decent success in the first and second dates. You are getting kisses, which indicates some level of romantic/sexual interest. But they are flaking by the third. It's not only about whether or not you escate, but...

Just stay out of it. Don't take sides. The cheating will come out. If you rat your buddy out, he will resent you. The girl maybe mad at you for not reporting the guy, bit she'll be a lot madder with the guy. Let things run their natural course. There is no reason for you to get involved.

I go to strip clubs from time to time. I think most guys who think people go there to "get hard" are missing the point. Obviously, if you're going to a strip club to get your jollies off, there are much better ways. You can watch women getting fvcked in just about every way imaginable online and...

It's very simple. Thrusting one's penis in and out of an attractive woman's vagina can be very pleasurable as can having fellatio performed by her. Men sometimes want to enjoy the pleasures of sex simply for the sake of pleasure. They don't always want to make love or express their affection to...

The only thing this study can tell us is that in Cebu, Philippines, in a sample size of about 600 men, there was a statistically significant drop in testosterone levels after men became fathers and this was more pronounced in those who were more directly involved in child rearing. It is probably...

Gotta love how the authors of the study try to put a politically correct spin on the findings. The methodology is valid and so are the results, but it's quite a leap to infer that men are physiologically wired to help raise the kids. Most anthropological evidence suggests that this was far from...

There's one big problem with this study. Even the authors acknowledge that the study does not account for stress and fatigue, which are both factors that can reduce testosterone levels. Men who are heavily involved in raising children are likely to have both factors at play.

In these types of situations when a girl asks the "what are we?" question, the best thing to do is to make her tell you what she thinks. You can gauge her answer and respond according. It's tough to say if she really doesn't want a relationship with you or if she's just saying that because she...