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I'd say the hardest thing for me was internalizing the abundance mentality. You read about it here and elsewhere, but it's one thing to know something in an abstract sense and another thing to really feel it. Our social conditioning teaches us that we should cherish every attractive girl...

I'm actually the opposite of you in my migratory patterns. I grew up in small towns and recently I've lived in Chicago and now Brooklyn...two different worlds to be sure. In the big cities there are hot girls everywhere and in fact, there are more young women than there are young men...

The question is, why do you go out there and hunt? Do you go there because you want to seem cool amongst your buddies? Do you do it because you believe that quantity or quality of women you have bedded is a measure of how much of a man you are? Or are you just doing it because you simply...

It sounds like a purely psychological problem. Do you have any trouble gettin hard when you spank it to porn? If you don't, then it's not a physiological issue. This is a common thing and you'll see many threads about it. It can be quite nerve wracking to have sex with someone for the first...

Obviously if she's coming at you with a weapon you do what you need to do in order to protect yourself. But what if the girl is punching you and kicking you? Is it unmanly to deck her? Or are you supposed to just hold her back? Here's a case study: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z2HhTFQMOEU...

I agree that they're not as logical as men but you don't have to be a genius to realize that the kind of guys who are hitting on you are nothing like Tom Brady or Justin Timberlake or [insert rich and famous male sex symbol here]. Women are fully aware of how attractive they are. Because...

Wanting something and getting it are two very different things. These girls might want and expect 10s and 10+s but it ain't going to happen. If all girls want 10s, and 10s are a rare thing, then these 10s have a huge number of options. So it's extremely unlikely they'd be settling for 7s and 8s...

There's no easy way out. The only way to get good at approaching is to get out there and do it. It's like learning to ride a bike without training wheels when you were a kid. Sometimes it was terrifying and you probably wiped out a couple of times. But you kept doing it until you got it.

I hung out some in River North and the Gold Coast area. I picked up quite a lot of tail there. Those tend to a little bit more snooty and upscale but the numbers game is your friend. Plenty of hotties hang out and live in Old Town. Rush and Division has a bunch of bars where you can find the...

I guess there are some 6 and 7 chicks "landing" guys who are 10s. But there is a very big difference between getting a rental car, leasing a car and buying it outright. A guy who is a 10 will surely have a large number of options, so a 6 or 7 is going to be a short term fvck at best....just...

You're right, it could be a matter of taste but if you can't find a girl to fit your taste in NYC or Chicago, you're going to have a very hard time finding one anywhere. There are 8 million people living in NYC and 3.2 million in Chicago. If you count the people living in the surrounding...

You guys bashing the big cities must have TERRIBLE game. I've lived in Chicago before and I moved to NYC in January. Both cities have been all you can fvck buffets for me. You guys really have no idea how good you have it. Try living in a small town and you'll see what "bad" really is. Are...

This man speaks the truth. I'd like to add that looks will make it EASIER for you, but they're not everything. Think about that kid you might have known in high school that didn't have to study and got straight As (hell, that might have even been you). You could have thrown your hands up...

I've never been married and I don't plan on getting married any time soon. But I do come from a pretty traditional family background. There is absolutely no divorce in my close family. My parents, my grandparents and all my aunts and uncles are married and have been married for a long time. Some...

But in scenario 2 you've been married to the hypothetical woman for 5 or more years. So chances are that you've already banged this girl hundreds to thousands of times. The hypothetical you describe is completely different.

The likelihood of both scenarios occurring depends on a number of things. For the single guy it depends on his game, looks, status etc. For the married guy it depends on the state of the marriage, frame control, mutual attraction, stress factors on the marriage etc. Certainly though, it's...

I don't think the average chick will pay much attention if you're driving a rare '60s muscle car (but a lot of dudes will). They will however pay attention if you're driving a late model high end luxury car because it communicates that you have money/status.

I think these guys just wanted to get some "exotic" tail while they were abroad. I bet this happens quite a lot, these guys were simply unfortunate enough (or perhaps not careful enough) to get caught. Just because guys choose to use the services of sex workers doesn't mean they can't get laid...

It happens man, people drift apart and they change. Time can weaken the bonds of friendship. Both of you have probably gone on somewhat divergent paths and I'm sure you're not the same people that you both were when you were the closest of friends.

I doubt that she purposefully tried to sabotage her looks. My guess is that her metabolism slowed down. This can happen to both guys and girls but for guys it tends to be later. Also, guys have a faster basal metabolic rate anyway. You say she's in her mid-20s or thereabouts, and that would be...