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It's real life from the standpoint that you are interacting with a real person on the other end, albeit online. If the online interaction continues ad infinitum, then of course it's not real life. Who needs that? Ugh. In my case, I don't let the online stuff go beyond one or two e-mails...

Unknown Don: As a fellow older DJ, I heartily agree with your post. In fact, I dated a born-again Christian years ago, and she was everything you described. (I'm not dissing anyone's religion. It's just that in this case, it may be better for born again and other fundamentalist or orthodox...

For the umpteenth time I've said it on here, yes, online personals work great. There are techniques and tactics that can definitely boost your success in online dating right here on the forum. Rummage around in this section and the Tips area. Does online dating have a stigma? Not like it...

Most of you guys said it already, so all I can add is that if you recognize the limitations, pitfalls, land mines, etc., which is really no problem, online dating works like crazy. For you newbies, poke around the site on this forum and in "Tips" for threads covering dating online. There's...

Yup, when the chicks are laughin', yer gettin' action. It can be annoying sometimes when they laugh at practically everything I say, but I don't really mind.

I'm in the older, getting-better-at-being-a-DJ-everyday category, and I've been dealing with this issue, too. Basically, I've adopted the attitude of having a fairly clear idea of what my "game over, pull away from the table and cash in your chips" woman is like; this is the woman whom I...

A glimmer of hope: Looks like at least some women are starting to get it when it comes to the realities and unrealities of romance: http://www.msnbc.com/news/873366.asp?0cv=CB20

Brilliant post as usual, Mr. Pook. As I mentioned in another thread, I recently went off on a rant against rampant, misguided romanticism with my lady friend awhile back. (She agreed with me, by the way.) I was particularly struck by your obervation that our archaic romantic ideals do...

Great observation, Mr. Technocrap. After age 26 or so, women are much less attracted to all-out jerks. After that, from what I've experienced, the 30+ woman on the surface may be all, "I'm looking for a nice guy," when she really means, "strap me onto a snortin' hunk o' man meat and let 'er...

As the resident "I only date chicks over 30" guy here, I can say that challenge works with these women, but parse it out appropriately. For instance, calling intervals of five to seven days are way out of bounds. Four days works fine for me. Being a bit mysterious? That's been successful...

The women I've been seeing totally agree with this.

Here's one more endorsement on Greene's Art of Seduction. I read it before I ever knew this site existed. It's the perfect way to gain an understanding of the DJ mindset and techniques. If you have yet to read it, don't waste another minute. It's at Amazon. Get over there and buy it!

Quote from Pook: "An obituary ought to be written. It'll be its tombstone when we bury this out of control romanticism for good." Amen, Pook. When I was with one of my MLTRs a few weeks ago, I got on a rant about the astronomical damage of the misplaced and displaced romanticism that is...

I could see how Diesel's post could be mistaken for being mysognist at first glance, but read it again and he says "95% of all women are utterly worthless...etc." Of course, all human beings have great worth, but for the sake of either shagging, an LTR, or marriage, fact is, to virtually any...

Good for you! There you go, guys. Two real-life case histories that prove this stuff works online if you pay attention and stick to it.

Re: Re: Re: Bust em' "Whoops, I'm very sorry. I'm a physically affectionate kind of guy and sometimes it's too much. Even my guy friends say so! Tell you what -- new rule: from now on, only you can touch me." Then a bit later on, I pointed to my wrist and said, "want to touch here?"...

The truth hurts, doesn't it? Very few ladies reply to my ad alone. But the combination of my loony e-mail replies to their posts and my crazy-a$$ posted narrative works like gangbusters. One of the women I'm now dating actually told me that she had originally seen my page in a search months...

Re: Bust em' This is key. Look, you really want a girl who's fun to be with don't you? Then she'll expect you to be nothing less than a good time, too. Fun is infectious. I personally do not recommend writing your online profile narrative or sending out reply e-mails with an AFC...

Just for giggles, I posted a bogus female HB ad on another online matchmaking service a few years back and got the same results. And a few dates! (Kidding!):D You're definitely on the right track, Old Dog. You'll find it works. Stay with it.

My favorite Napoleon quote: "If you're going to take Vienna, then take Vienna!"