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Then listen more carefully next time you speak with them and find something!

Here's an interesting twist, in an LTR if you keep up full-on DJ techniques past three months or so, especially too much mystery and challenge stuff, it's a great way to lead her to end it first. Ask me how I know... That's exactly what happpened with a recent LTR I was thinking about...

You may be too earnest in your approaches at the bars. As mentioned before, go more ****y+funny (emphasize funny), be more of a challenge, don't make out with them at the bar (save it for later -- "challenge," remember?) and when you get the number be a little indefinite by saying something...

Fifty lousy cents? Dammit, Shorty, do you realize how much it costs to fly to Australia? Get to work! Only $3,249.50 to go...

Sorry, Bjon, but you're giving Keanu Reeves way, way too much credit for the quote, "the most important thing in life is showing up." The actual quote is, "eighty percent of life is showing up." The author? Woody Allen.

Well, maybe Shorty could've let the guy down easy and protected his brittle ego only a little, or she could do what she did, which was to berate the hell out of the messenger and the sender. Know what? She did right in this case. On rare occassions a wuss needs a little figurative "slapping...

During the e-mail phase, it's always a good idea to get them warmed up with ****y+funny, etc. Always keep it fun and do what you can to be evasive or at least incomplete when they ask you questions. Keep that mystery thing going. There are exceptions (aren't there always?) but the general...

WestCoaster has this dead-on. You younger guys on this site have it great. I'm 50-plus and this site has helped me like you can't believe. The techniques you learn here work on women 20 to 35-plus. Women are women -- period. Most of the women I date are aged 35-45 and what I've applied...

Attractive women are often taken? Not from what I'm seeing out there. There are more than enough attractive women, based on individual preference of course, available. Jeez, all you have to do is jump on Match.com. There are literally thousands of them on there. And, yes, most of the...

Way to go, Frank. Keep it up and keep practicing. Part of all this is improving yourself and part is practice, practice, practice. This is, after all, a skill that has to be learned and applied. Above all, have fun with it!

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: It Happens All the Time To each his own. Just don't be surprised if she comes back. One thing's for sure -- you'll be in the driver's seat then.

Re: Re: Re: Re: It Happens All the Time Just because it hasn't happened to you yet doesn't mean it won't. Maybe she is in the loop, maybe she isn't. In my experiences, in one case I took her back, in the other I didn't.

Re: Re: It Happens All the Time Where did I say that you should stick around? The thing is, you don't; you move on. If she comes back a few months later, then you're one who makes the decision as to whether or not you want to pick it up again. Yes, she can say, "let's take a break" and...

It Happens All the Time I've been through this several times before, and am going through it now. What Vicki is talking about is a variant of the "Switch." The Switch is when a couple seemingly ends or puts on hiatus an LTR. One or both of the partners may initiate it. The Switch period...

I think that the LBJF thing can work to a certain degree, but it can be taken too far. To me, the key is to act like her friend, her buddy, a big brother to her bratty little sister, whatever, but don't say you want to be friends. If you want to be friends with another guy, do you start by...

That's the attitude, Frank. Except strike "hopefully" from that second sentence and think about how it changes its entire meaning -- and your outlook. Get out there and have fun with it.

Hey, Frank, it looks like you take the notion of needing "seat time" literally. What -- you think there isn't enough hiney-licious booty left for the Frankster? Be patient, there are plenty of hard bottomed babes available in inventory. Hold on -- we'll check in the back...

No problem. As an amateur racedriver, I could always use more seat time -- both in the car and with the ladies!

Just in case anyone needs a translation of the phrase, "seat time," used by Mr. Topwrench in his post, it's a term used by race drivers that refers to on-track, in-the-****pit practice.

There's a feature article in today's New York Daily News on this very subject. If you can get your hands on it, read it. If not, one interesting research study mentioned in the article found that women, for the most part, have had as many, if not more, sexual partners than men. The thing...