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You're right, he does come across that way. I wonder if he was metro before he started all of it, or if he started more serious and alpha-like like most of us.

It's because we're guys, and guys are good at math. The "dandy" type, for example Cisco or Laura Croft does well the opposite sex simply because he/she is more like the opposite sex, so understands the mindset better. In a way, the fascination with numbers is an example of being "overmale"...

I'll tell you what I said with mine, and it worked. She asked how many I'd been with, and I answered, "Well, I won't get into a lot of detail, but it's more than one and less than ten." And I was a virgin, but I at least knew that I was better off not telling her. She was satisfied with that...

Social Anxiety Disorder/ Introverted/shy, they're all the same thing. It's crazy how modern psychologists categorize any normally occurring problem like shyness as a disorder these days, but that's a different post-- I want to reiterate that I strongly discourage the use of prostitutes...

On the radio they had a formula. I don't know how true it is. Take the year the girl lost her virginity, then subtract it from her current age, then subtract out the number of years she was in a committed LTR. Then multiply that number by 2. So if she's 28, and lost her virginity at 18...

Some more questions that turn up with this issue. Should I tell her that I'm a virgin? No. Don't tell her, especially if she's over 30. You can say something like "there were 2 or 3", or don't even give a number, but don't say that you're a green as day virgin. After you've had sex it won't...

This post is on getting rid of late virginity, which I define as being past college age, or 25. If you're a virgin this long there are probably reasons. The common ones would be 1) Highly Introverted/shy 2) Religious upbringing 3) Health problems that prevented it Also, for your...

Here's what I have: 1. Women with children 2. Post-Divorce issues (re-entering dating scene, drama) 3. Sordid past (alcoholism, substance, criminal record) 4. One's own children, especially sons. 5. Late Virgins (25+ virgins) 6. formerly impotence (pre-viagra) 7. Online dating 8...

I dont' think this is really a DJ issue so much as it's a general relationship issue. You probably know that all divorced mothers of ungrown children want the same thing: a return to a sex life and financial support. She's gotten attached, and she'll probably start pushing you for a...

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I think the top issues for mature men tend to be 1. Women with children 2. Post-Divorce issues (re-entering dating scene, drama) 3. Sordid past (alcoholism, substance, criminal record) 4. One's own children, especially sons. 5. Late Virgins (25+ virgins) 6. formerly impotence...

I took care of this, and for once, I did everything right. First, I prepared what I was going to say. I rehearsed it a few times, saying it out loud. I didn't write it down too much because I didn't want to be a perfectionist, but I did memorize it. I called her up (had her number) and...

You have to test this stuff out. Go on the field with the attitude that it doesn't matter whether an individual girl works out. Test just a few things at a time, so that you can measure their effect. This may mean that you have to practice somewhere other than where you really want to get...

It sounds like it might be a fun game, but nothing in the description indicates that it helps teach seduction theory all that well.

classyguy is right. Basically, you took too long, so she decided to move on since nothing was going to happen.

Go see the movie "I'm gonna get you sucka". There's a scene in which a woman turns from a 8 to a 2 in just ten seconds in the scenario we just discussed.

classyguy, For bill gates, his money and his aggressive personality are all that he has going for him. So if he lost his money, maybe he'd be aggressive enough to get her, but I don't know. Here's the thing: Can she or can she not see through his HSM shield? Well, she can physically see...

It's not that Jayer isn't nice. I've heard that whole "nice guys aren't nice" argument a few times, and it really is bull. Nice guys truly are nice. But that's not what women are attracted to. Men are attracted to beauty and kindness. Women are attracted to handsomeness and status. If...

Classyguy, What makes a guy a 1? Would he have no arms, no legs, bad teeth, and bad breath? Mystery's theory means that the Girl considers the guy a 1, not that there is such an absolute thing. But for the sake of argument, let's say that a 1 really does have no arms, legs, bad...

The eHarmony thing assumes that you're going for an LTR. value and interests are important for long term relationships, but not attraction. Our society doesn't teach attraction very well other than looks. If you've come to this board, then you realize that attraction is the problem for "nice...