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Maybe not related to what you want, but instead of looking for positive beliefs to use to replace yours, you should look at your negative beliefs first and list those out. What you eventually end up changing them to may not be the same as what another guy would give you. I wrote something a...

This is a quick and simple technique to get rid of embarrassment instantly the moment you start feeling it. Step 1. Focus on the task at hand (like approaching the girl or whatever) and block out the world. They don't matter right now. Step 2. Say to yourself: "Whatever happens this is...

It's elementary Watson. This guy obviously still fulfills a need for her which she may or may not be conscious of. Basically he does something for her which she feels she has to have in her life. Again this is not some sort of verbal agreement. Neither her, nor he know what it is, but it's like...

There is so much truth on that one statement!! Only trouble is, most guys will not choose the path that leads to real manhood, but will instead choose gimmicks and tricks that will get them instant results. Stop chasing skirts and start chasing your dreams. Then and only then skirts will...

You bring up a good point, but I think fear of failure in itself is really fear of being judged and/or fear of being embarrassed. There is a particular attitude or mindset which causes ALL the problems with fear of failure and other fears. You could only have AA if you do a few things in your...

Depends on what you want after the LJBF-ing. Usually the LJBF technique is used by the girl to dismiss the guy when she's not interested in him in a nice way. It's a way of her saying "thanks but no thanks" So if you LJBF her you'd be saying "thanks but no thanks" in advance and you won't...

I had a moment of insight recently. All the problems we're facing with women are NOT usually the problem, they are just symptoms of the problem. What this means is the problem itself (i.e. approach anxiety) is really the effect NOT the cause. The cause is usually a mental pattern, a set of steps...

You don't buy it mate!! It's all BS and it's her way of dealing with the subconscious guilt she feels when she sleeps with other guys.

@WaterTiger - Right on!! Just look at Hugh Heffner @DonS - You gotta work out more bro

Awesome point number 1. LOL Guys pay attention!! Make your intentions clear and don't let her shame you into submission. She wants you to tell her what you want and be very clear about it. Man up! Awesome point number 2. If you want some you gotta ask for it. Forget all the BS and tell her to...

I appreciate all your feedback. I did make some unneccesary assumptions and need to be more careful about the words or statistics, and yes the final version will have more examples. @brownbear I do have to learn to take any criticism as constructive criticism unless there are direct insults...

Thank you all for the feedback @brownbear I see what you're saying, but your argument is based on the idea that validation, whether external or internal is a bad thing. If that were true, what would be the point of having goals and achieving them? If I have a goal to get more fit and have a...

I've already gotten a couple of responses, so if you want to get in on this, just send me a PM. There is a text limit on the PM's so you could send 2 if you need to write more.

Moderator, can you sticky this for a couple of weeks? Otherwise it will get lost and I'll have to keep bumping it.

If girls call you a nice guy and you get no action from them, I want to hear from you. I've been doing a study on nice guys vs. jerks and have come up with 5 areas that can be improved to finally move out of nice guy status. They are: 1. Confidence/Lack of inhibition 2. Masculinity/Dominance 3...

Wow this is pretty awesome!! I think the problem you have is that you shifted into a different mindset when she came close. You went from pure dominance to wimpiness and she was pissed!! This is probably because you thought you had to say something interesting to impress her but of course this...

Fellow DJ, I don't post here as much anymore as my life is more important to me than wasting time on a forum typing away for hours in an effort to portray my superiority of knowledge :D Everybody who posts here thinks their situation is unique and different and they ask for specific advice...

Go to the gym and work out so you can get some muscle in that puny little body of yours (or so you can lose the extra weight) (don't ask me if I'm psychic....I'm just channeling Dr. House)

It's the slut label that they fear. No matter how the whole thing goes, the fact that she "hooked up" with a guy she just met is enough to make her feel guilty. Depending on what you want you could do a couple of things. If you want to date them, don't make out with them on the first...

Your problem is in the assumption that it was something you did that screwed up everything which comes from the assumption that you had a chance to begin with. What if you had absolutely no effect on the whole thing altogether? I'm not saying you had no shot or no control over the situation...