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Mindset 8: You need to be a sex god/put on a first-class performance/know a lot of positions to please a woman Welcome to the biggest fallacy to ever hit store shelves. Thousands of books are written every day touting this technique or that technique that will make you a sex god in the bedroom...

Mindset 6: I need to find the perfect girl/the right girl/my soul mate/the one for me This mindset, or better yet this excuse, plagued me for a very long time and it had very negative effects in my life. For one it made me very judgmental of girls. I never realized this until a few months...

Mindset 5: I need to say the perfect line/perfect opener to impress her/get her interested in me This is the most common mindset amongst guys out there. They’re always looking for the next silver bullet opening line that will cause the woman to melt. There are several problems with this...

A Virgin? Really?? Do you know what the real definition of a virgin is? Apparently not. A virgin is a woman who has had her chastity under lock and key and has been under constant supervision throughout her teenage years and into adulthood. She has never been touched or kissed, NOT even...

Mindset 4: Desiring a woman sexually is disrespectful to her/women don’t like sex Welcome to the most ridiculous brainwashing that has ever occurred in modern times. I used to believe that women did not like sex and did not get horny. Don't know where I got that idea :crazy: I typed my...

Mindset 3: Once I gain 10 lb of muscle then I'll go out and meet girls This is only an example of the form Once I do X then I'll do Y X is anything from buying a book, getting a haircut, putting on some muscle, losing some weight, making improvements in your life, or even going to a...

Mindset 2. If only I could get a girlfriend to make my life complete /show off to my friends/solve all my problems This is a very sneaky dangerous mindset most guys are usually not aware of. If you think like this internally and you choose to ignore it you’ll pay the price down the road...

The 10 most dangerous negative mindsets in dating and relationships Hi guys, I think I’m a pretty studious guy with a knack for analyzing situations and perceiving distinctions on things that work versus things that do not work. I have spent a lot of time analyzing my own dating life and why...

OMG an algorithm!!!! :rolleyes:

Look at the link in the bottom. He didn't actually write it

Lol, why are you setting yourself up for this kind of thing? If you take her home, I would do the whole "blindfold her and feed her various types of food" from 9-1/2 weeks

It's a misconception to assume that you can't find quality women in bars. That would depend upon your area (big city vs. small town) and the bars there. I don't blame you for hating the bar scene though, I don't like it myself either. It's too loud and too dark, but that doesn't mean that you...

True story!! I used to be on match.com and bought their 6-month package. I really didn't send that many emails but sent enough to see how much of a meat market it is. There's more women with free profiles that can't really reply to your emails unless they pay. But that's not the point...

Bingo!! jophil nailed it right on the head. You can send a follow up email if you want but I'd consider this a lost case.

CR James. http://superpowermedia.com/ I think the book was part of a package. His stuff is mostly geared towards men in relationships.

Yes the idea is to give them emotional swings. This one guy I know calls it "emotional thrusting" Much better visualization no? :D He even has an ebook on the hate/love swing (i.e. make-up sex) which uses this idea in a relationship context. From my experience there are a few things a guy...

First of all it's awesome you're being sexually dominant, you're supposed to, and you're getting a good response. You just need to add this one other piece to it. The idea is to push on the gas pedal for a little bit, as you currently do and get what I call "emotional fireworks" going then ease...

I think if you want more second dates you have to understand the concept of teasing. I think it's not a matter of whether you were too sexual or not, it's a matter of how she thought about it. You see girls are meant to be led, but you as a man have to know what you want and be congruent. If...

I realize that what you're saying makes sense to me now. I have fully embraced the value/economic model. What I was saying is that, for myself it was a little hard to believe that it was all just perceived value. I had a mental block against it which had something to do with "true love" or any...

I think guys who are "naturals" have an innate understanding of this type of economics and use it to their advantage without being aware of it. AFCs on the other hand, myself included for a while, will question this model because they believe in something more idealistic. We are all brainwashed...