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You did not read my post carefully ... I did not say he was not into you, I said he was not THAT into you. Granted the sick thing may be a reason but if I was sick, and I knew a girl was into me, and I was really into her, I would call and have her come and take care of me. Single, not...

Because you are an attractive woman acting,thinking, and feeling exactly the way that we want the women we are interested in to(well I guess you could put out but otherwise . . .). All kidding aside either this guy is just not that interested or maybe he is a player looking to get some and...

No the key is to look interested but not desperate or needy.

Whoa it's been awhile since I have been here. Great post. To clarify there is a major difference between expressing interest in a woman and coming on strong. Some guys can get away with coming on strong. I personally can not. I do better by hinting that I may be interested and making the girls...

Hi guys, this is a great site. In the 3.5 years since I first discovered this site I have learned a great deal. The last year or so I have found myself visiting less and less. Many of the views hear are golden, there is a load of great advice on how to attract and keep the woman(or women) of...

Matteo, I understand your dilemna, I have been there as well. If it were me(and I have been there) it would be time for me to make a decision. Either it is time for you to to move on to the next step or it is time to break it off. Make the decision and live with it. If you don't see yourself...

Hey man I liked that line about "have you been served yet" and your follow up. I didn't think the "Italian experience" or the "Don't you hate it" lines were any good but if they worked for you, great. It's awesome that your not hesitating to approach any more. That's a part of my game I need...

Dude your temper is the least of your problems here. No you should never lose your temper. Your major problem here is that you are being a big pvssy. Why do you ask your gf's opionion about every decision you make? The worst thing you can do is seek approval from her. Just do your thing...

Your title says it all, you are trying to impress her. If you still want to impress the ladies with your connections(which I don't think is such a good idea in the first place) I would suggest trying a different approach. Tell her you could hook her up but don't pressure her about it...

This sounds so much like what happened with me and my last girlfriend(the first girl I dated since being an afc). We broke up in the last couple of months. Like your ex she didn't like the fact that I was not an afc. She wanted to get back together and I knew by that point I was enjoying...

60,000, that's rough but it may work for you since you don't live there. Your situation seems pretty tough actually. Having lived in rural, suburban, and urban areas I have found rural areas to be much harder for me to dj in(and urban areas are the easiest). But that's for me. What I would do...

Chancer, I really hope that you find a way out of this. I have not read the whole thread and I am truly sorry if I repeat what others have said. (although I probably have) "Happiness comes from the achievement of goals" In my opinion you should start small, make a simple goal for...

OK Dakota a few more questions: One: The city that is an hour away, about how many people live there? Two: What do you see as your best avenue for meeting potential women to date? Three: What sort of things do you do for fun? Four: Do you have any good friends that could function as...

Congratulations on the great work last night. That rocks man. It looks like you are getting more concerned with the process rather than the result(which I think is good).

This is one of the best posts I have ever read. More people on this site need to realize this.

Ok, so your the big man in a small town and the women that are interested in you are off limits. You say you are content just knowing that women are interested(i actually do understand this). Is your goal to date somebody, date multiple somebodies, find a wife or is it to just tell everyone...

I have to respectfully disagree, if you wait until you are ready you will spend your whole life waiting. Trying and failing is part of any learning process. I have had some ****y and funny not go over well and I had to learn how to blow it off. Part of gaining confidence with using any...

Hi Dakota, many of us are math and science geeks here, but that doesn't stop us. In what situations do you feel confident with women(besides your class).

Good luck sixtyfwee, I am not irish but I will keep reading your posts on this. It is good to see someone post actual field work. One thing that helps me when I am not at the top of my game is to go places out of town or just somewhere that I won't go back to.

Conversation with a woman does not always have to be tied to interest. Alot of times it is just fun to enjoy each other's company and make each other laugh. I guess maybe a more accurate way of stating Matt's intent is Do not just use ****y and funny, be ****y and funny.