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    Flirt heavily with girls you don't care about

    I like this tip. It's like practicing. You start to learn what you can really get away with and what works. After doing this for a while you should move on to flirting with women you are attracted to as well.
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    Asking out a girl, who you can offer nothing to

    Forget her, your a big loser compared to her. That's the thinking you're setting yourself up for. If you don't know what you can offer her than you really will have nothing to offer her. You offer her fun, good times, your company whatever. There will always be guys...
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    I don't think my ****y and funny is either Help MetaPhysical!!!!

    I personally have done the online chat thing only once. It did not appeal to me. Maybe I would do it with someone I know in real life but we shall see. That said. You are forcing it, the best ****y and funny isn't about trying to think of something funny or ****y to say. The best ****y and...
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    The "initiative" test... to pick up or not to pick up

    Go pick her up and don't make a big deal out of it. I gather that you already have the date set. Just say "I will pick you up at 7"(or whenever) and leave it at that. If she asks what your plans are say "this is your chance to be patient and see where I lead you." It seems like you...
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    Is this scenario realistic?

    Damn them, they stole the rights to my autobiography. Let me know who did this so I can sue the sh!t out of them.
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    So she is pregnant (this is bad)

    I am not going to tell you to convince her to have an abortion. I am not going to tell you to raise it. I am not going to tell you to give it up for adoption. I have never been in this situation(thankfully) and have no idea how I would react. This is a very personal and serious decision and...
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    patience, do we need it?

    If you can't keep calm that's not really her fault is it? The more she loses her temper then the more powerful your calm dissaproval becomes.
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    My ex and the new girl

    Ricky, I think have been in a similar situation as you. Finally it ended because she wanted something similar to what your ex wants. (ie she wanted us not to be bf/gf for a while but she couldn't handle thinking about me with someone else.) Ricky, why do you feel that you owe your X...
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    patience, do we need it?

    A bit of patience is good. More important than patience is calmness. You can let her know that a certain behavior is unacceptable in a very calm manner. Being calm while expressing disapproval is powerful because it gives a woman a sense that you are detached from the situation and this scares...
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    SALSA-hint given-advice needed..

    Hey guys, I have been involved in the salsa scene for 2-3 years and just moved to a new place. I am ok, but there are some amazing dancers here as well. Anyways, my dancing is more unique than amazing(I'm good but in a different way than most around here). I have found is that as long...
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    Talking to a girl who's constantly "under attack"?

    Would you take that approach when it is a one to one conversation that you are looking to break into?
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    If looks aren't key...

    Hi Thanos, I am also a bit overweight(about 40lbs). Also I have been told I have a baby-face and I am also latino. Latina's especially will not have any problem commenting about your weight but don't take it too hard, often they are doing it as a flirtation technique. Latina's in general care...
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    Women make me feel empty inside.

    I knew that but I am still confused what you are saying. Maybe Er!c was a little off point but the whole stop the negativity point is still valid.
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    Women make me feel empty inside.

    Westcoaster, who are you talking to here?
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    Age Limit for clubs?

    I have been going out alone a bunch lately myself. I see more and more people that go out alone as well. If you really feel uncomfortable about it say you are new in town but also remember this. Most women will never go out by themselves. I have known quite a few girls that were more...
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    Women make me feel empty inside.

    Shorttimer, your in the DC area right? I just moved here man if you want to go clubbing or whatever send me a pm.
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    Women make me feel empty inside.

    Man once at a party a buddy and I were talking this girl comes up in between us she starts talking to him and ignores me. Another girl would literally say hello to everyone at the table except me. I have started talking to girls and been completely ignored. All these things have happened...
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    Dancing Lessons

    Not all the great females are hard to dance with. Most I have encountered are really great to dance with. I would go so far as to say if someone is difficult to dance with they are not really a great dancer. The problem comes when certain salsa scenes become loaded with attention ho's who...
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    Dancing Lessons

    I'm in Steve's camp here, salsa is the way to go. Another great reason is that when you ask a girl to dance salsa it is not automatically considered a pick-up attempt so it is alot easier to actually meet alot of women dancing. In a typical night you can easily meet 15+ women depending on how...
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