trying to impress a girl is a turn-off, apparently

[ogre]

an example:

Nice young latina girl, pretty, very talented singer and performer, appeared on TV on some Spanish talent showcase.

when I met her she really dug me. at first. and her mamma liked me too, but that's another story.

at the time she was living with mamma and working 6 days a week as a "trainee" in a pet goods store in the Gangsta part of town. they were paying her $75 a week. yes that's right, A WEEK.

I am a musician and I have a lot of contacts. I told her I could get her session gigs that would pay her $75 per gig. All she had to do was go out with me on a Monday night to meet my musician buddies at the club where we play.

OK, granted she was only 21 and I was 36 at the time, but still, that's too good of an offer to pass up. sound like a no-brainer, right? what do I get?

"sorry, I'm busy"

and of course, the more I opportunities I offered her, the less interested she became.

this is just one example, I have more. I 've offered to set girls up with headshots, modelling gigs, singing gigs, acting gigs, all legit, no B.S., nothing perverted.

Contrast this with porno predators like Bang Bros, a couple of 40+ year old men who pick up stray collegs girls, promise them to make them a "star", whip out their camera so they can "audition" them, and next thing you know the girl(s) are fvcking and svcking and taking it up the azz like the wh0res that they are.

what are they doing that I'm not?

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by ogre
this is just one example, I have more. I 've offered to set girls up with headshots, modelling gigs, singing gigs, acting gigs, all legit, no B.S., nothing perverted.

Because you've got an ulterior motive. They don't want to OWE you for giving them a break. And they know exactly what you want in return.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Originally posted by ogre

Contrast this with porno predators like Bang Bros, a couple of 40+ year old men who pick up stray collegs girls, promise them to make them a "star", whip out their camera so they can "audition" them, and next thing you know the girl(s) are fvcking and svcking and taking it up the azz like the wh0res that they are.

what are they doing that I'm not?

Bang Bus and all these pornos where they fukk random girls are not real...All that sh1t is set up...The reason why she wasnt interested is cause you looked too eager to hook her up...And it could be that she thought you were trying to take advantage...Some things you gotta girls fin out on your own, espically things about you or things you do...

 

[DJ Mission]

Tell her that it is her big opportunity. Play a guilt trip on her. Just be like "If you dont want to share your talent with the world, then its ok...If it makes you feel better..." blah blah.

 

[comote]

Your title says it all, you are trying to impress her.

If you still want to impress the ladies with your connections(which I don't think is such a good idea in the first place) I would suggest trying a different approach. Tell her you could hook her up but don't pressure her about it.

Women will be alot more impressed if you don't act impressed with yourself. Let her know how you could hook her up but don't act like it is a big deal.

Oh yeah and BangBus IS FAKE.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

First off...Impressing a woman doesn't matter if her interest level in you is NULL AND VOID.

You can have money comming out your anus, drive a Ferrari, and have all the connections in the world....if the girl thinks you're a creepy, fat, slobbering, old fart (not implying that you are)..it really doesn't matter how much you can offer her.

How many times have you seen some idiot loser with no job, lives with his parents, drives an ugly are, yet---this guy is baning chicks left and right? Whats to impress?? The guy has nothing. But..we've ALL SEEN it. Some loser jerk with the hot chick..why?? Because for some reason her interest level is high in HIM...not in what he can do for her.

Yes..there are those women out there that are looking to climb the social and financial ladder and deal with men who can only offer them these things...but why whould you date a woman like that?

In your situation....try being a 21 year old latina singer for a second...Why the heck does this 36 year old man (who obviously wants me sexually), why is he trying to help me?

She probably thought you're just a creep and no matter what sincerity you think you possess in the matter..let's face it...YOU JUST WANTED TO BONE HER and she wasn't taking your bait. If you were SOOO connected...where the heck is your limo, box seats to the Lakers, and patinum Jacob the Jeweler watch??

Next time...f*ck her...unless she asks...don't offer..don't brag..don't boast...don't show off that you have tons of connections. If YOU can make a person a star....you shouldnt have to sell yourself to anyone...people will search for you.

 

[ogre]

Yes of course I'd like to bone her, EXCUUUUSE ME for having a penis!

But I get the point.

If I offer to do nice things for a bytch (no matter how beneficial it may be for her in a practical sense) it will set off her creep alarm. So, no more favors. Not unless she is really really nice to me. then I'll do her a small favor. Make her beg for it like a dog.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

You've been watching too much of those latin porn sites.

First, chicks on porn are wh0res. Is this girl a wh0re?

What you are essentially doing (in her eyes) is offering her money for sex.

Now, if you had mentioned to her mother there were better jobs....