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Are you then saying that over 23 its near impossible or not possible to tailor a woman to your needs?

Sorry for the silly question at this point but im new here, but what do you consider to be a sh!t test?

Good point Cola, we so many times get lost in the beauty of the lady that we forget (or choose to forget) all the rest. Guess most of us have been there before at least once...

As expected, she called me back through normal line (since i blocked her everywhere else....) to ask if I called her back the day before, and because i deleted her number and never memorized it I picked up. I said no, if it happened it must have been a pocket dial mistake. So after 30 seconds...

let me guess, kept bringing up arguments with you for no big reason and making a big fuss about it? It can wear a man down....

Interesting point. I do feel women in general prefer guys that command some sort of figure, but there is a market for everything I reckon

Thought had crossed my mind for the future, but after blocking her on all possible platforms and ignoring her completely, would she still agree to that...?!

After deleting and blocking ex gf from facebook and linkedin, I was doing the same on whatsapp but accidentally called her. I terminated the call immediatelly and after also blocked her there, but now she might be thinking i actually wanted to reach her. I feel like an idiot now...

Just of curiosity guys, from these symptons of BPD written below, my ex suffered from numbers 2, 3, 7, and 9. Would you qualify that as BPD or just as some sort of insecurity? 1- An intense fear of abandonment, even going to extreme measures to avoid real or imagined separation or rejection 2-...

Thanks for your words Guru. But by keeping one foot out and the other in, what do you mean exactly? To always have a backup option?

So, as an update, this morning she sent me a "sweet" text saying although I asked for some time to think about things, her heart couldnt wait any further as she was moved by what happened before, and that she only ever thought of being with me, that she loves and loved me all days, and that was...

What if you dump the BFD girlfriend, do they usually try to come back with you or just do the same as if they were the ones dumping?

So am I right in thinking she had severe mood changes for subjects of little importance, and also had a great need of attention from you and others?

Sorry if this has been already asked, but how did you determined for sure you were dealing and in a relationship with a BPD girlfriend?

During the initial 3 year period, yea I did bang other women too, but ever since becoming more "official" with her I stopped doing that. And I am not naive to think that she didnt also bang other guys during the 3 year period, what I was hoping was that once we made a commitment, that she would...

Yes, at this point i think you are right

Thanks for the feedback. I am considering when approaching her next to give her an opportunity to say something firstly, but it might just be wishful thinking from my part. Most likely she wont say sh!t or anything that would make any difference. Therefore next contact will most certainly be the...

Hi guys, I started dating this girl that I went on and off for the last 3 years give or take. Some 4 months ago we both decided to make it more serious, so we took that decision together. She lives 300km away from me in a different city, so it was never going to be an easy situation to begin...