Search results

So, ended up meeting her on friday night. Went for drinks, and after for a walk. Ended up walking to my place, where she was offering resistance to go up with me. I told her I had to wake up earlier next morning (which was actually true) so anyway she could only stay for a limited period of...

I went ghost since we discussed about this here, and funnily enough she just texted me saying this: "If u happen to be free somewhere in town this night, let me know - might join you. Otherwise Monday is OK but lets do 9.30 and just drinks please. Hope its ok for you"

Starting to feel similar results to Inferno, although i have only stopped watching porn for 3 weeks and have nearly cut fapping to 0 (only 2/3 times last 3 weeks). Erections are much stronger, just still need to field test it in the sack but i have a feeling it will go well.

If your first date averages 170/200 USD, what about the 2nd and the 3rd ones....?!

You are right, our time is too precious to waste it on low-investments. Gaming a girl like this would just lead to disapointment.

Yes it does feel out of sequence, and me coming from a place of scarcity and insecurity. Since she hasnt yet confirmed the time and place that I suggested, I will just ghost her and disappear.

Good insights DoubleGreatest... Just hate going back on my word again now. Anyway, and as with many other situations, spinning more plates solves issues like this one, which I will look forward to do.

Yes im going but im not paying the full dinner, obviously. Will let her do all the kino and see where it goes

I did this, and she replied with counter offer for dinner for monday, that she had mentioned yesterday too. Her text: "Patience is a virtue dear..Life tastes better like this!Monday just round the corner...If U still up to it.Lets check the third time at least.Sounds good?"

Have better things to do with my time then trolling other people

After her last SMS I tend to agree with devilking. Just received this text, with referênces to things we joked about yesterday: "I respect U like clear situations-so do I.I think its very mature!By the way,there's so much to lose already!Ur trip to Katowice with me,U will not hire me as a Polish...

I reckon she understood I wasnt talking about feelings , just the fact that I thought she was leading me on

Anyway you think I can still have some chances here? Just tell her that I understand, and for her to contact me when she feels confortable to do so?

You are right pyros.

Thanks for all your good advice guys, I thought about what you all wrote and my perception of things as well, and I reached the conclusion I was in the beginning of the process of being majorly jerked around by this girl, so I said f*ck it, not falling for that. Therefore, I sent her this text...

Just remembered that she is going to the same friday meetup we went last week, but I probably cant make it this time due to work duties (anyway I also prefer to meet her one on one and not on a group setting), so I was thinking of texting her before the meetup telling her I wont be able to make...

I guess if she refuses the invite to come over for a bottle of wine, then its really time to move on.

I didnt wait for the end of the date to kiss her, far from it. I started escalating very soon during both dates (if you consider the 1st one a date).

Good points Reykhel. Dont know why exactly I framed it as a date the first time, only because we did go after alone for drinks and walk, just felt like a date at the time after some escalation. But having said this, she did reject me on both ocasions, date or no date. This is taking place in...

I know mate, I was just trying to act cool after she rejected me and not get butthurt. Also said after, I find you very attractive so I will try again later, with a smirk on my face