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Re: Wise of you, check_mate. And you're right, a man wouldn't argue to defend himself. That's a disease of the ego, as if BEING wrong were some mortal sin. However, let me point 1 thing out. I am 8 years older than you, done college nearly 3 years now. The life I create is a byproduct of...

Re: The Ego has many components, narcissism being an affliction, or self-love to the 'n' power. I have friends like this, and some ways, I was like that. My own 'expectations' created a lack of happiness. Often times I expected certain things of life, as if it operated so logically...

Something I've noticed. Some thoughts... Whatever you need, you won't get. What you want, but don't yearn for, will appear. I suggest, in addition to the bible reading: The Way of the Superior Man Anything by Stuart Wilde Some David Stuff. If you emailed him, he'd crack you...

Re: Don't take this in the wrong way... But some people have taken a simple concept of *get your own life* and twisted it to mean *be a challenge.* Ever notice how marketing likes to spin bland, boring concepts, and make them excepting by pinning cool names and images? The...

Difference. One key point YOUR minds are believing, but isn't true. When you jump from a plane, or battle rapids, it's YOU VERSUS YOURSELF. You can't change those rapids, you can only control yourself, your ability, and what you do while in the rapids. Same with skydiving. You...

Re: Romance is NOT: A ~~~~~> B. Is not out come, which is the result of action. Just because you do A, does NOT mean you do B. Your beliefs of what are attractive are not necessarily what she finds attractive. What if HE's the best guys she's ever dated? Haven't you ever dated a...

Re: "It's not as important to get it RIGHT, as it is to get it STARTED." - Mike Litman.

Part Deux. By LETTING go of control, you can now realize that opportunities abound. Some might say: "Well, if I let go of control, then I'll get lazy. Donald trump doesn't let go of control. Warren Buffet doesn't let go of control, and look at them." HARDLY! Buffet invests in a very...

For sometime, I have desired to write an article on "confidence". As it is a much oft debated topic, and one posted on all to frequently on dating websites, I refrained from cluttering the forums. However, because I realize my views might be accordance with others, I'd prefer to shed light from...

Re: While I appreciate what you're saying, a major point is missed... Kiyosaki IS NOT a HOW TO GURU, he is a WHY WHAT GURU. He gives you the big picture, the motivation, the concepts, hence his game. He doesn't purport SPECIFIC strategies, as he advocates finding your own route to wealth and...

Sarcasm. To most men, my opinion does not matter, because it's merely a topic of discussion that will remain uninfluenced by a large majority of capable men here. Therefore, I will not post my opinion. I will however, retort with a question. Why do so many of you try to DEFINE life...

Re: Bottom line, if a person can't respond to a voicemail, they're not interested, and they wouldn't be very worthwhile on a date. Why waste time with someone useless on a phone? It's not that big a deal bro's. Call. Be the man that you were born as. State your claim. Socialize...

Re: Rollo, Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate your more mature and educated perspective, with the logical undertones. At least the younger guys can feel like they're armed for battle with tanks and bombs rather than sticks and rocks. A-Unit

Bumping my Own Post. Yup that's right, I felt it needed to be read and understood. A-Unit

Re: Assertiveness. Take charge. Subvert the little voice decrying: "Stop don't, it might hurt!" Be a rock, emotionally. Testosterone is the balance to her estrogen. When she's out of whack, don't swing that way. Maintaining cool under most circumstances is a much better way to...

Entitlement, which is essentially the expecation that we DESIRE something for some REASON by LAW or CONTRACT or RIGHT has become a common misperception amongst people these days. In prior times, people were grateful to feed and shelter their kids. Opportunities were hard to come by, but when...

Awesome replies. Productive exchange. Wonderful, guys. It has been advocated that one must be formless, like water. Once you understand, you break it down into your own form, and maintain now predictability, because life affords you no predictability. What works on one girl, won't work...

Contexts Something that goes little noticed by people is the context that a person is in when donning certain personas. When you go to a club, versus going to say a candle lit high class bar, the clientele, the atmosphere, and the feeling are immensely different than going down the street...

Ownership of your Life. On a good number of points, as incoherent as some of it was, I agree. It boils down to this: Owning Your Life. Many people ALLOW themselves to be victims of circumstances. Well... Frankly, WE'RE all victims of circumstances. How about the guy with great...

When you first start becoming conscious of dating, mating, sexuality, and your own destiny, it often revolves around becoming better-looking, wealthier, obtaining symbols of status, elevating your character, engaging in more comical discussions, learning NLP or seduction tips to make it all...