An interesting realization...

[LikerOfWomen]

I just read the part of the DJ Bible about how absurd it is that people who do somewhat dangerous things on a regular basis are scared to approach beautiful women. And I realized I'm exactly like that.

I spend a lot of time in the wilderness, and although the main dangers I encounter are probably sinking into swamps (if you've ever sunk past your waist in bog muck you know what I mean) and slipping and hitting my head in a rapids, the one that really gets my heart going is encountering a bear. For those whose main experience with bears comes from Winnie the Pooh, it's useful to note that real bears often actually aren't as scared of us as we are of them, and their attitude in an encounter seems to be, "hey, um... which one of us is a bear? yeah, now get the f away from my blackberries."

But as much of an adrenaline rush as that is, I've realized something--I get a lot more freaked out by a 5 foot 90 pound blonde than I do by a 7 foot 500 pound bear.

Next time I'm having trouble getting up the guts for an approach, I'm just gonna remind myself of how ridiculous that is...

 

[Climax]

-^ ...lol... ^-

you are forgetting that with women its not "FEAR" for ur life that takes affect, its got to do with emotions, pride, and phisical attraction.

So comfronting a bear and comfronting a woman are 2 totally different things, but u had a nice idea though

 

[unformed]

i was the same way for a while. I skydive, and I never feel scared at all when i jump out. I dig crazy **** and being put in places where I'm close to death, but I could never for the life of me look a girl in the eyes. I'm working on it, and slowly getting over that....

 

[DeathDealer]

It's very simple dude. Those bears and rocks on the water rapids do not talk back to you. They do not have any sexual desire.

 

[LikerOfWomen]

They do not have any sexual desire.

True. If they did, I might be more afraid of the bear.

 

[Anaxibios]

They are slightly related... if you have the guts to try things that really scare you it WILL be slightly easier to do new things (like approaching women).

Women, however, have power to affect ones self-image (if you let them), which is far more dangerous than getting mauled by a bear.

 

[xblitz44x]

I have seen a lot of women who look like 700 lb bears.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by LikerOfWomen
"hey, um... which one of us is a bear? yeah, now get the f away from my blackberries."

That seriously had me loling

 

[Desdinova]

be, "hey, um... which one of us is a bear? yeah, now get the f away from my blackberries."

Just apply some kino to warm up the bear and you'll have no problem getting at his blackberries.

 

[Kaine]

Just apply some kino to warm up the bear and you'll have no problem getting at his blackberries.

Perhaps some ****y and funny

"Hey don't go thinking that I want your berries already. I already have a pair of enormous nuts."

Then go for the kiss close

If the Bear tries to take your face off, then NEXT it.

 

[A-Unit]

Difference.

One key point YOUR minds are believing, but isn't true.

When you jump from a plane, or battle rapids, it's


YOU VERSUS YOURSELF.


You can't change those rapids, you can only control yourself, your ability, and what you do while in the rapids. Same with skydiving. You can only prepare, and make sure you pack a parachute. After that it's do Or die, so to speak.


So what's that have to do with women?


That you can't control them either. It's still...



YOU VERSUS YOURSELF.



And in most cases, all the preparation with women comes down to what you're doing NOW. This moment.

Are you reading books to improve your abilities in life, in understanding, in growing as a person?
Are you working out to get the best shape possible and max out your confidence?
Are you deciding what you want out of life, going to get it, so you're happy no matter what the consequences are?
Are you into yourself enough that approaching her is just another part of going after what you want in life?

If you NEVER ask, you NEVER know.

When you're at the club, or you're at the bar, or you're at the mall, or the beach, wherever, this is not the time to evaluate your game. Just approach based on WHERE you are now. If you're shyt ain't straight, take this opportunity to get experience approaching. I'll gamble 100:1 odds that you WILL NEVER see her again, unless she's friends with you, and THEN...

You will have rapport
You can laugh about it and possibly score THIS time
You can meet OTHER girls
And when you evolve from cacoon to butterfly, and still know her, she'll be fair game.




A-Unit

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by LikerOfWomen
True. If they did, I might be more afraid of the bear.

lol....

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
I have seen a lot of women who look like 700 lb bears.

lol...

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by Kaine
Perhaps some ****y and funny

"Hey don't go thinking that I want your berries already. I already have a pair of enormous nuts."

Then go for the kiss close

If the Bear tries to take your face off, then NEXT it.

does this get any better !