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    wow, revelation on the role b*tches play in our lives

    Good food for thought dude. I must be honest - my mom is quite the opposite. She takes responsibility for most the bad fortune that has befallen her and she is extremely hesitant to fork out the blame. She feels women are to blame for about 99.5% of the crap out there when it comes to...
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    HOw do you respond to NO call/No show!

    I've seen my own errors pointed out on this site and I am infinitely thankful for the frankness found here. Especially when sprinkled with humor, the hard truths are so much easier to swallow :p
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    U guys have sons? breaking the Cycle?

    I have a young son, under 10. I'm trying my best to give him a fresh, powerful start in life. I am trying my best to avoid the domineering father trap. I don't tell him how to live, I don't tell him that (some really useless) s**t is wrong or right. He will discover some things on his own...
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    I have never felt as bad as i do now

    Hey dude I think your problems are very deep-seated. This girl who has flopped on the fringes of your life is just one symptom of some serious cognitive problems you got. Get some professional help man. I'm referring to your last post where it was quite apparent you have got a lot of...
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    The love of her life but only 60% IL?

    So an ex is around, I still chat her up. I know, Stupid Me, I know, don't preach me on the obvious, however, something she told me bears repeating and I'm wondering if you guys have the same take I do... She's been seeing some guy the past 3 months. She "loves" him more than anyone she's...
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    Why do women luv helpless men?

    Thanks Joeker & Frank You both bring up excellent points. Let me just say I'm at a point in my life now where I rely on as few people as possible. Funny thing is I've been through some serious personal hell lately and it was because of the help of my parents that I managed to survive. But...
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    Younger looking Adults

    LOL this is freakin' hilarous. Last week I was telling my mom that I'm gonna color my hair once my grays start to become too noticeable (BTW, I'm 40). She says "Don't do that! They make you look dignified (ie, distinguished)" My response: "I don't want to look distinguished and I don't...
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    Why do women luv helpless men?

    Dude you might be right. Maybe I'm a little hasty in my accusations, and maybe I'm reacting to a personal agenda. Just maybe I've been burned by a girl who decided she would rather have a weepy boy than me ;) Whatever the case, I've noticed this with other women who I wasn't interested...
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    Why do women luv helpless men?

    There is another thread in this forum and one of the posts caught my eye. It was from PoloBlue: QUOTE]Originally posted by PoloBlue because women see it as a sign of weakness... they want a man that can fend for himself, they want a self sufficient man, a good provider, a grown man...
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    private or unknown calls

    I called a girl about a month ago at her job. I met her once before and I found her number off a business card. I called, talked a little, sensed there was no great interest, no great future. NEXT. I think she might not have realized I was calling from my cellphone. About a month later I...
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    NERD vs. DJ / Can they co-exist?

    I know this forum should not get bogged down in semantics, but I think a clarification is in order. NERD: maybe you dresss funny, maybe you act quirky. you aren't the coolest cat in the room. but in your mind it doesn't matter cause you ultimately are comfortable in your own skin and...
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    NERD vs. DJ / Can they co-exist?

    Yep, so true. I find I enjoy portraying NERD but I'm comfy enough with that act to overcome it when I need to.
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    slap me, I'm an AFC and it's just getting worse

    I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months now. We have the most absolute amazing relationship. We have grown so close to each other that she revealed to me that she could see herself married to me in the near future. I mean wow, HB 9.0 wants to marry me? Holy sh*t. That made my year...
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    Your most ridiculous fear with women

    That she will just uses the s**t outta me. That I will meet an emotionally sadistic woman who takes pleasure in batting me around. Who will take me as far I will allow her and then she just squashes me. I know, a real DJ would not allow anything to get THAT far, but it happens....:mad:
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    NERD vs. DJ / Can they co-exist?

    Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game? I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it" Whatever!
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    any divorced guys here?

    I got married for all the wrong reasons. Having a child is not a reason, note to everyone who might think otherwise. Marriage is nothing to be trifled with. It's not something that maybe can be "smoothed" over in future, that will grow on your over time. You want it or you don't. Don't...
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    I am hating the way I look

    Re: Re: I am hating the way I look Thanks for the pointers dude, that's all good advice, sometimes you just wanna hear someone else with the same problem :) It's not like I sit there 24/7 thinking about thit crap, but lately I think about it MORE, you know? My genetics are weird...my dad...
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    I am hating the way I look

    Seriously. I'm scraping 40 now and I look in the mirror daily and I find myself micro-analyzing my face and I don't think I like what I see any more. My looks were never going to melt girl's hearts, but I used to work past that and still get laid regularly cause I just didn't give a s**t...
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    New Girl, Different Problem, Really Need Help

    Dude, you play you pay. Let me tell you what yours truly did in all his brainiac glory: I got involved with a married woman who I f***king worked with. Mind you, this little descent into hell is not over yet. I go to work every day, even after she saw fit to tell her husband just about...
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    Couldn't Rise to the Occassion

    Antihistamines Don't underestimate the embarassing, frustrating and killing power of these damn meds! I was having the worst time getting up for my gf (and this was when I was 29!) - I finally put 2 and 2 together. I had taken some OTC antihistamine for my hay fever, something I normally...
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