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Nice one, it seemed pretty smooth and you handled the ****block from the guy well. But man I'd hate to be in that guys position. It's so damn awkward pretending to be a girls friend when you want more. I'd rather just ask them out when I've recently just met a girl, and risk a rejection or...

It's a shame you can't go to the gym anymore. But at the very least you have developed your body a decent amount, and probably look better than the average guy. You'll eventually get back in the gym so don't worry. In the meantime don't see your injury as a burden, see it as a blessing, here's...

From what I read you're looking for something to boost your energy levels before a workout. You say you want a natural source, which suggests you care about your health and probably already have a healthy diet. If not, the guys already posted good diet tips above. Now as for the natural energy...

I agree with the above post. I would like to add some points that you may find useful: Newsflash. You are not jobless. You already have a job right now, and your job is to get your **** together. You need to treat it that way, so that you have a positive mindset and you guarantee that you will...

I agree. One more thing. If you want to manufacture an "in the moment" moment again like you did your first encounter with her at your bar, it is going to be very hard. Spontaneous moments are hard to just plan out, because they won't feel spontaneous anymore. Also I think her bf has probably...

I guess if you really want to go through with this, then there is a way. You should have at least a phone number, or Facebook contact of her. Message her, have a bit of small talk and make a date. Possibly at your bar, but keep in mind her bf might come storming in there if he suspects she's...

I'm my opinion she didn't seem too bothered. She canceled a perfectly good date for the both of you to have a good time at a nice place. Instead she offered to rush the interaction at her workplace during her break. It's good you didn't agree to do that, since it would have made you look bad...

That's true, but I guess their behaviour should be expected. A girl who has a high body-count and no relationship experience is not the girl-next-door type, but a sloot. Sloots love sex, and therefore only tolerate good sex since they can get it from almost any guy at the snap of a finger...

To be fair, yes, being short hurts your chances with women. But that is only one area you are lacking in, and you may be stronger in other areas. E.g nice body, financially well off, funny, confident. You can improve yourself in the areas that can be changed, like confidence for example. Don't...

If she seems to have a lot of experience, or acts like she has a high body-count, I don't let it bother me, for a number of reasons: 1. I'm not going to marry her. I'm there for the fun and experience. I'm too young and busy building my future to be worried about a random girl who has banged...

How about you reframe your thoughts like this: The way you are will actually INCREASE your chances with women because they notice you are confident in yourself not to conform to the things other people do, just for the sake of fitting in. Having no jewellery or tattoos can give a more...

Personally, I think there is way too many girls in this world, to have to go after other mens women, or friends exes, siblings of exes, or exes of siblings etc. This is going to be very difficult, and probably not worth the hassle. It also might be messy and cause trouble in your life.

I think you could have been a bit more direct if you wanted to, but I don't think it matters much if she was genuinely interested. In my experience, if she's into you, she will reply fast and be friendly, even on the exact same night. She makes it easy for you regardless. I would move on and...

I agree with what you said about how women help improve ourselves. But I also think interacting with anyone can exploit your weaknesses and help you grow also. I think Poon King made some great points, but I also have to say that the definitions of respect and love you defined don't seem...

You're right. I'm not going to waste any more time, I'm done with it.

Update: Unfortunately, I recently seen her in one of our mutual friends parties. The vibe was quite awkward, so I though I might as well be civil and talk a little to her, and then get on with the rest of the night. I did this to remove awkwardness between us, and seemed like the right thing to...

Thanks for the further insight guys. I agree with the points being made about me bettering myself. In hindsight, I lacked knowledge about these types of girls, was naive in thinking I could change or fix them so easily (especially when they seem to show disrespect), and perhaps could have left...

Wow, thanks for the advice everyone. I'm new to this forum and I appreciate the help. I have looked at the points you have all raised and I can say that I completely agree. I guess I'm just a little shook from the whole experience. I have genuinely never been with a girl like this. As a...

So I met a girl at a house-party. We talked for about an hour, got her number, texted her, and set a date a couple days later. The first few dates went well, and she had high interest. We continued dating for 3 months. However, I noticed some things that made me feel uneasy. She mentioned she...