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From my experience, your gut instinct is something you shouldn't ignore. You did well listening to it. Unfortunately, with girls like this who are unstable and need fixing, they are easy to get involved in their drama. They easily make you feel sorry for them, and ignite your white knight...

It's really not a big deal man. Dating a hot chick might be cool, but don't get all exited. Remember you guys aren't officially together yet, she can leave at anytime at this point. She can even leave at anytime even in an LTR. You don't even know if you're compatible, if she can be trusted...

Hand grip trainers are good. Deadlifts, farmers walks, wrist curls, hammercurls, pullups are all good. But the main thing is time. You need to exercise your grip over a long period of time. It can take years to develop. Rest them every now and then so that your forearms can repair and grow...

Ideally don't plate up girls at the same workplace or institution that you go to. Been there done that and it was a nightmare. Girls, especially the above average/hot ones, don't respond well to rejection. Their egos get hurt, and will try to get revenge. They may spread rumours about you, or...

Thanks man, I listen to your advice. It does feel like it will definitely end up just like the way you described. I will also have resentment towards her if I get back with her, which is unhealthy for the relationship. And like you said, I will always have my instincts telling me to leave. I...

Thanks man, I appreciate it. I have been drinking a lot, and randomly break down during, just because I held my emotions too much and using alcohol as a way to get it out. I've stopping using alcohol to numb or express my emotions now, and drinking much less, it's not healthy. Once I get...

Thank you all, for hoping my dear mother gets better. I visit her mostly every day, see if she's ok. To be honest, my father isn't taking it well either, and I need to be there to support him also. If I'm honest, it does get emotionally and physically draining at times, and it just has impacted...

It feels like I am in bad place right now and need help and advice as to how to cope. This post is not just about women and relationships, but is about life and family as well. It has been already a while since my mother has been diagnosed with a serious illness. Unfortunately, the doctors have...

You will get over this. And when you do, you will look at all the lost time from being hung up on this crazy woman, and be annoyed at yourself for letting her do that to you. Thinking that will speed up the healing. Convince yourself that getting back with her, missing her, and wanting her are...

Girls like muscle, no doubt about it. It's makes you look masculine, strong, healthy. And since we live in a society where we are being bombarded with images of good looking bodies through adverts and magazines on a daily basis, women want a piece of that more than ever. When girls say they...

Or....you can just quit all this over-thinking and theorising. Just ask them out to hang out. You will feel better about yourself whether you get a date or get rejected. This is because you are not thinking "what if", you simply got it out of the way. Sure, if you know them and see them...

As long as you told her, or showed that was not what you really meant, then there is no point stressing over it. I don't get the whole worried about committing thing. What usually happens is you go on dates and hang out with the girl, and eventually you become exclusive. There is no need to...

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There is more to attracting women than just looks. Yes looks help a good deal, since they get your foot in the door so to speak. But if you don't have the inner confidence, charm, and charisma that you can only get by being happy with who you are and working towards your goals, then you become...

I think you first need to go with the flow of your emotions, grieve, get over the loss of the marriage. Then you can enter the dating game fresh, and with minimal effects from the divorce. Luckily enough, for men it is easier to find a mate when you are older, even potentially in your forties...

Honestly, it's OK to just ask directly. In fact, most women will respect you more for this, since you are confident enough to state what you want and are not hiding your intentions from her. Mid conversation just say "are you single by the way?" or if you want to be polite say "excuse me if I'm...

Great that's perfect. You are probably just a bit nervous since you're back in the dating game after a long time. Don't need to put too much pressure on yourself, it's just girl numero uno, and it might work out and it might not. I guess all you have to do on Tuesday is just be relaxed, have...

It looks like you guys have just been chatting back and fourth, no official dates if I'm not mistaken. I personally would have gone on a date, see how she would react to my advances, and gauged her interest from there. That way you won't be reading into her text messages and trying to decipher...

So a girl meets a guy online, who she never met in person, probably doesn't know who it really is, and has phone sex straight after. She doesn't really seem like the type you'd want to invest in/start getting serious with. She is more for fun. If it was you who said to meet up 2 weeks later...

He is not a good wingman. Everywhere you go, the women are going to be fixated on him, and trying to get with him. The women are not going to pay attention, or feel you because the second that guy walks in they only care about him. That's an issue, you want the women to have a chance to feel...