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Well.. I wouldn't be surprised if some months down the road she tells you she has feelings for this guy. Coming from experience of course, since I was told the same thing, twice at that too. What was I thinking man? If a girl's IL is high, you will be the one on her mind all the time and not...

I can vouch for a similar story, but in my opinion we get into s**t like this and create unnecessary drama because we fail to qualify the girls that come into our lives. If we pick wisely, then the world would seem like a better place. Would love to hear the more experienced people's opinion on...

War, that's a good piece of advice. Some women nowadays are so like men that you are just headed for trouble dating them.

Being a Don Juan does not equate to being an a**hole. Similarly, being a gentleman does not equate to being an AFC. Always remember to calibrate your actions and responses so that you don't come off bad.

Thanks jonwon! really appreciate the advice!

Yes I agree that I don't know much about romance. Guess the fact that she's younger than me makes it even more of a clownish thing eh? thanks for the feedback. True, my ego was bruised jonwon, how do i cure that? she's starting to treat me much better since i called her on her sh!t. Just want...

True, too bad I didnt jump through it. I was all smiles when I told her to cut the bs and break up, and she kept asking me why i was so happy -.- But I guess in the short run a loose arrangement would be great for me too as i open myself to other options ;)

Thanks for the tip, definitely an eye opener!

I see her about twice to thrice a week, and she wasn't open to the idea of being fb when I brought it up some time back so do I go about doing so?

I understand where you are coming from warrior, I did that previously, walked away from the bs and told her that I don't want a girl who is not sure of what she wants and it's disrespectful to me. Problem being she came back crying and I'm simply not in the state of mind to handle that drama so...

Thanks for the advice. It's true, it's rather hard not to supplicate if I come from a frame of trying to regain her respect for me because that would simply be a reaction instead of an action. And I guess men always lose when we react.

So there is no way to kick her off the pedestal and still keep the relationship? I mean, both of us really want to make it work, just not good at doing so lol

Hahaha my life is not on track cause im 11Kgs heavier than I was before this, my studies are in a mess, blahblah the list goes on. Its the result of me placing her on the pedestal and giving away my power i guess, so just wanna hear some suggestions how to reclaim my life and power bit by bit.

Well its her first relationship and she did give her first time to me. I guess Im more of wondering how to get my own life back on track. Thanks for the input guys!

I'm probably not old enough to be posting in this section of the forums, but I've a feeling I need the advice of the more mature members of the board. I've been together with this girl for the past 11months, but it's been a hell ride for me. After the first half a year or so, she popped it...

Day 1: I read this thread way too late. about a day late. broke up and i groveled and try to get her back. but as time went by i realised i was just bamboozing my own self worth by begging. Hence, NC has begun and i've told her to forget it and i will not talk to her anymore.

If she seemed like she would be fun being around then why are you spending all that precious time talking to her instead of doing other more interesting stuff with her? Spend the time doing things with her that you have things to dominate the conversation about. But, hey. Aren't we men...

Calling her on her bull**** will just make you come off as ultra needy. I know you need some ass, but you need to play it cool but not cold. Take your time, act (if you have to) like her rejection did not affect you and build up the interest again. If she rejects you again, well. you'll be...

First of all, I would like to say that going on a date where the girl is "better" than you might be considered a taboo as you would generally "lower" your value in the girl's eyes. But as long as you are out to have fun and don't get hung up over your lack of expertise in this activity you will...

I totally agree with that, exercise is a good way to bust stress and get some testosterone flowing. Cheers man!