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My man, a 200$ shirt is not worth the risk of you losing grip. It is a treacherous path you are treading on. Do keep us updated.

There is nothing wrong with being a busy man. Imo, her saying its not going to work was a **** test. You flunked her test by asking her what wasn't going to work. My guess is she was trying to get a reaction out of you and you gave it so she lost interest and confirmed that you didnt make the cut.

gaspipe, okay I do agree with that. But perhaps what I meant was in this context the more she tested the more she got invested in the interaction, so in a way, interest. OP did get laid in the end, but I think most of us here wouldn't encourage him into continuing if she keeps on playing such...

Tbh, some of the times were happy. But I've had the luxury of thinking through things after it ended, and those happy times were happy because I had someone to share them with, not because I wanted to share them with her. Do you understand the difference? I am really glad you did it. And I...

Did you reply to that email about her saying she cant hang out? And.. If you did, was it along the lines of "Cool, was about to tell you that I couldn't make it today" ? Or did it sound like a dejected ok disguised to the best of your ability? The only way for you to be different from...

European-DJ, How is things going? Have you done it? Or have you already made enough excuses for you to not follow through on your decision? It is normal to feel sad. More often than we would admit, we care for the girl in our lives. it is like losing a part of yourself when you break up with...

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I am just wondering.. why did you not just lay her but set some solid ground rules like it's nothing serious and she has to keep it discreet at the workplace? It's not right you have to right a field report to your bosses every time you lay a co worker right?

i once told a girl i loved her.

The below was a post I wrote to myself moments ago, and I am currently down in life being extremely overweight, near broke, crashing out on my studies, having a near non existent social life, a dying relationship and the list goes on. I did not put it here because I enjoy being trolled or...

I am going to assume here that you have feelings for this girl. So why not just go with the flow? Is it because you feel that if the "real" you shows beneath the C&F and negging and mysterious aura then she will lose that attraction which she has for you? Every relationship has this almost...

Styleman, You WANT the girl back, then go for it. We can tell you a million reasons why you shouldn't do so, but it wouldn't register in you because you have already CHOSEN to go ahead and get her back. I've been there, done that. At the end of it all, I got a little more hurt, a little more...

and me too scorpio. i did the same as you, and she ended up agreeing with me. don't you just love women? :P

Take a break from women and work on your life. I find that works better than "sarging" because honestly if your ex was a keeper, she is definitely going to make most of the women you meet pale in comparison

You need THIS I'm in the midst of breaking up with my girl too. Girls will always try to make it sound like they are breaking up with you over something they don't like about you. This makes you go on a defense about how you have done this, you have done that. But to be honest, that...

Take on a project nonetheless. You've the time anyway! ;)

OH NO. Am I going to be banned because I came here thinking this is a forum for improving as a MAN and not just to get some a$$? SOBS. I think many of the issues and problems we see on the forums if the guys toughen up and start fixing their lives.

Somewhere in the OP's post i read the words "emotional tampon".

hey my man duracell, you're learning fast! :D Yup, OP's reply sounded like he was trying to shift the blame of the fling ending onto the girl. No, we don't do that. She was pretty "nice" not to do any ljbf bull**** though.

Imagine if one day we stopped focusing on whether the women came to us or we went to them. Instead, we are out climbing mountains and swimming in the seas, seeing the world and living our life. Women? Just a side-dish in the platter of life. That is the ultimate aim of this place. To make...