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You have to be the bigger man in this case. If she wants to tell stories about you "taking advantage of her", and then make pretenses about you two being friends then it isn't worth your time to appease her. If you two travel in the same circles just tolerate her as best you can. College...

Don't contact or respond to her anymore. You're infatuation with her is digging you into a proverbial ditch. It's not enough to seem like you don't care. You actually have to not care yourself. I know that's harder then it sounds because it's obvious that you do but you have to beat that...

My advice is to ride it out. When she told you that you frustrated her, she was telling you what she liked. You kept things in space and she kept coming back. You altered the relationship (I'm going to assume you confessed feelings or something) and by doing so took away the part that she...

I don't use email for social reasons anymore. Between social networking sites and smart phones(although email is accessible through smart phones) , there's really no need because you can stay connected on so many other levels. I do use email HEAVILY for work however. Clients and co...

She wants you to commit but doesn't want to push you away by forcing your hand. I've been in this spot several times before in the past. This is a commonality for women to do when they know you're on the fence but they're having sex with you, developing feelings, but don't know what your plan...

Learning to dance certainly seems like a viable option.

Why are you hung up on just one girl in the first place? Trailing a single attractive girl without any other prospects clouds your judgment. I haven't seen this girl and I already know she's not a 10. Stop putting so much of your focus on this girl and expand your horizons to give yourself...

In order to gain popularity with other people one must be socially active. I'm not sure how you're "not nice" to other people but in order to be spoken to by other people you can not be a social pariah. I'm not saying you should start picking flowers for everyone around school but if you want...

This situation sounds like standard affair to me. It was a quick invite. I do this all the time for girls. Don't look into it too deep and don't worry if she shows up or not. If you're going out, go out with the primary intention to go out and hit the social seen. You should invite more...

Let me be the first to welcome you to being human. You're going to have a lot of decisions to make between now and the time you die so it's best you get a handle on things as soon as possible. First off, despite what you may think, breaking up with a girlfriend will only do significant harm...

My mother works in adoptions in my home town of Maryland. This story doesn't even bring a tear to my eye when compared with the horror stories she told me about some of the things adopted parents do to children. I'm not going to say all adopted children are f*cked up but living your life going...

It was a newbie! Son of a b*tch! Got sucked into a mean less thread for lack of observational effort!

Going to bars alone is always a good chance to met girls. I've been approached by girls more times while at the bar alone then almost any other circumstances I can think of. The key is just to go and have a good time. I make it a point to get to know the bartenders at any bar I'm going to...

Don't worry if there's another girl there that you like. This is what i mean by over thinking. I know you're new to this stuff but you really gotta get out of that "these things are important" mindset. If there's another girl you like who's where ever you go, talk to her too. You're not...

You should go. I went to a lot of senior proms when I was in HS from sophomore year until I graduated. It's really just one big party with decent after parties. The nostalgia of knowing it'll be the last time a lot of people will be together does some pretty cool things. Hatchets get buried...

You should just do your best to present yourself well. Your lack of experience doesn't bode well for your ability to "compete". It's best if you start out with the mentality of "I'm going to put myself out there and see what happens" rather then trying to formulate some complex strategy of...

Your primary problem is you're taking this way to seriously. You worry too much about something that in a reality isn't all that important. You need to lighten up for lack of better words. Instead of driving yourself crazy about "where things are going" take a step back and look at where you...

You did absolutely nothing wrong. Depending on what message you left her, I'd say you did pretty well handling the overall situation. However, you've now done your part and must once again take up the running silent part of your socialization. She called you, you were busy, so you called her...

Computer Systems Manager I couldn't quote on. I would think that a specialty job like that, especially considering how complex the POS system is on these boats, you'd be treated better then standard staff. But then again, you personally aren't bringing in that much money for the ship so you're...

Having a bunch of friends won't really do much for your social status. Being known and revered by the masses will do you wonders. Are there one or two people at your job you are remotely interested in spending some time outside of work with? If so I'd start there. You can meet people very...