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That's how it should happen. Also, don't do it too often or she will begin to think that you are a man who is never to be taken seriously. More especially; if there is something she wants to talk about seriously or something that is important to her, making jokes of that can be - and is - quite...

The number one rule is to be a good host. But before I get to that, I'll tell you something general (just in case you aren't quite aware of this... and notice that this is how most parties are done in Finland, I don't know about the place where you live): That's usually how I do it. Just...

Chewy Bagel - here's the deal. You've done everything you could. If she doesn't contact you or even talk to you now, that means that she is NOT INTERRESTED. You might have nexted her, but like so many people have pointed out, she nexted you first. You can of course try to talk to her in the gym...

A simple test: do not call her for a longer time and see if she calls you. Altough if she does she might still be having only physical attraction - but at least you'll know that even then she gives at least some value to this sex-only relationship. If you want more than sex with her, you'd...

Nowdays there are only 3 Don Juan "rules" that I follow - "C+C+C", Confidence + Control + Challenge. It is SO much easier without memorizing all the little tricky details of how a DJ should act. Before: I go on a date. I sit there, look her in the eyes, start a convo with almost exact...

I've been praticing with my band for the last couble of days quite intensively, so I haven't had the time nor the will to go "hi"ing around after that. But tomorrow I'm off to say at least 20 hi's :)

You're such a nice guy :)

Having a no worries kind of attitude and being completely irresponsible are two quite different things. I believe that not taking a clear stand when receiving disrespect is more likely to destroy a relationship than taking one. And still I don't see any game-playing in stating what you think...

As unintentional as it might have been, she could have still seen it coming had she been a little more thoughtful (hell, she's gotta be pretty dumb to "unintentionally" screw up like that, seriously ;)). And it was a crappy thing to do, even though it was unintentional. And I don't see any...

Echo... I don't know about you, but when I make a promise I try to keep it and I except the same thing from my friends/girlfriends. I quite frankly don't even consider these promises that are made "without really thinking about it" somehow "lesser" promises. Once a promise is given it will be...

Don't lie about your feelings. If you don't accept something women do, then tell them that you don't accept it. The tip - "nothing you can't handle" - doesn't mean that you should take crap from people. On the contrary; the fact that you can deal with crap shows that there really IS nothing you...

Bump! Day one: eye-contacted like crazy until someone called the cops (next time I'll drop the evil grin... I just couldn't help myself, I loved seeing their faces ;)) Day 2: More crazy eye-contacting, did a couble of "hi"'s too.

I know that I'm not a newbie anymore, far from it. But I never did the boot camp. So I wanna do it, just to see how well it goes for a man who has been a DJ for over 2 years... ;)

It's about being the center of attention - every man needs it from time to time. There are even some poor bascetcase batstards who need it all the time... but normal amount of it is enough for a normal person ;) And yes it does raise your confidence. I play the drums and I enjoy nothing as...

None of the above. Originally it was simply for me to find an LTR. Later I've realized that the true reason for my unhappiness was not a lack of girl. I was simply not doing the things I wanted to do. Right now, the reason I'm here is because I want to do everything I do in my own way and my...

Awww I just realized that these chats are basically "American only" because of the time they are held, it's either late night or early morning everywhere else in the world lol... Well, maybe one day someone will make an European chat too! :) Too bad there seems to be less and less European...

Hmm... I get this feeling that you don't even know yourself what you want. It is clear that her goal has never been friendship with you, and your "hard-to-get" routine apparently made her IL rise even more. But if you want to be only friends with her, you need to do three things. One: Stop...

FAV POSTERS: 1. Don the Legend - he helped me a lot back when I was just an AFC (seems soo long ago now ;)) 2. Neophyte - he did many things for this forum. He created the whole DJ Bible single-handedly! 3. Pook - He has written a couble of inspirational articles. 4. Adonis - read his...

This is the advice I would also give to you. Okay, so you're a DJ. And now you except all girls to be DJ's too? You except them never to be nervous if they make the initiative (and believe me, girls who DO make the initiative are GOLD from my experience)? We do our DJ stuff to get girls...

It's not impossible to get girls through AIM, but from my experience, RL approach is, like Sammo said, simply easier. You don't have to talk until exhaustion to get the girl to like you, unlike on AIM, where you can't use the body language, kino and/or eye contact to your benefit. But hey, I say...