You don't fully understand.. For you it's natural, but for us task-oriented people, a smile and a friendly hello is often the least important things on our minds when running errands.
Example:
Went to a grocery store to buy a single chocolate bar (was very very hungry but didn't have time for...
DesperateDon.. Here's an idea
Try it out. If it works, great! If it doesn't work, try doing it differently, or doing something else.
(And change your nickname.. To something not negative)
And don't give him ammunition to continue the abuse!
T.A : Are you sure? I'm afraid you can never get the girl.
IDJ : Why do you think so?
this just gives him reason to continue abusing you and saying whatever he wants. Try to put the focus back on him. How? Not sure right now, nothing's...
Good answer..
BUT..
Was a philosophy necessary to get where you are today, Pook? You have been through a transformation from nice guy to what you are today, feeling no need for a DJ philosophy, Could you have just gone from nice guy to DJ without these intermediate steps?
uh.. yeah...
I'm getting pessimistic about this.
I think I'll coin a new term: AFW - Another Frustrating Week.
gah.
0 conversations with strangers.
gah.
AFW.
Maybe undisputed, but I think the point of this method is to do it in a funny attitude. Like "yeah yeah, I know you get hit on all the time, so let's make this funny instead of the usualy mess"
My pleasure!
Ironic though.. When you initially proposed this, I said "I'm in, but I'm not sure I'll be able to post every week". LOL. Now I post almost every day (exactly what I wanted to avoid, becoming addicted to this website... My poor poor carpal tunnels...)
Interesting. Reminds me of a girl friend of mine, when we started university.. I didn't see her for a month or two after the start of the session.
She then told me that when she started she wanted to concentrate on her studies, not on boyfriends. Then she told me she couldn't resist and 2 weeks...
That's very normal - people aren't used to maintaining eye contact. But now you know why it's such a powerful tool...
Oh yes I know the feeling. Don't let it go to your head - Control, Charm and Confidence, remember
Great! Weapon #2: smile!
Glad you could join us, Zelemont! Welcome to...
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