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I've gone on dates with two girls from that site. The first one was awesome, the first girl I slept with. She was hot, smart, funny and we had an amazing amount in common. Unfortunately she had some personal issues and I had to let her go. I met up with the second one last night. She looked very...

HEY GUYS!!! Stop stressing this dude out. You guys are turning this into some huge epic quest to overcome his AFCness in one swoop. If you put him in that mindset he's gonna self-implode! bfl dude...you need to realize that this is not the end of the world. Like I said RELAX...let's hear some...

Just RELAX, no pressure man! If you're stuck, ask her if she listens to whatever type of CD you're buying or something.

I think if you're doing something really informal like grabbing coffee or some drinks, it should be 50/50.

I guess the real distinction to make here is the difference between slim and fit (think professional swimmer) and walking mattress (Arnold Swartzenegger). Most of the HB9 girls (usually tall and thin themselves) I've dated or talked to have told me their ideal body type is slim, defined muscles...

I've done both, and I find the benefits of fasting are much greater when you don't jerk off AT ALL. Yes it sucks for a day or two but then it gets way easier.

....and an hour after I wrote that, I broke the fast. :confused: So I guess the lesson is, don't ever listen to anything I say, 'cause I'm full of ****. :D I'm starting another 7 day fast starting...........now.

Wrapping up Day 7... Most of the temptation to break the fast is gone. I suddenly feel way more magnetic, and socially I'm patient too, I don't mind things taking longer to work out...ie in long conversations I do much better strategically. Also I'm alot more magnetic, it seems. People are...

At the risk of sounding corny, it scares me to think what my life would be like now if I hadn't found this site. I spent pretty much most of grade 5 through to my first year of university socially isolated. When I was a child I was extremely hyperactive (later found out this was ADHD), and...

I've avoided anything at all. I've tried fasting before and doing that but not cumming, and it doesnt have the same effect. Not doing anything at all makes it stronger, at least for me. So how many people are actually left? Am I gonna have to spend the next week doing this alone?

Ahhh no! These fasts only work if you don't do ANYTHING down there. Actually I'd argue you broke the fast just by doing that. Just because you don't come doesn't mean you're not jerking off.

If you saw Clint Eastwood rubbing his hands with lotion, would you tell him he's not a real man? 00Kevin you are judging peoples' manliness by what cosmetic products they use. I think you even had a thread about the AFC and DJ way to stop your car at a red light! That all sounds pretty...

Nothing wrong with asking her if she's on the pill ahead of time...better than asking in the middle of foreplay, at least. Also: -make sure you squeeze the air out of the tip of the condom before you put it on, this will decrease the chances of it busting -if you come inside her with the...

(Day 4) I find I'm a bit more focused too, which is good since I'm doing exams. I used to be content surfing the web for hours but now it makes me restless. My skin was really pale, but my face is nicely flushed. I slept 5 hours last night and I feel alert and awake. I can make eye...

improvingdon, just wanted to thank you. I've had a horrible week girl-wise. I dumped the girl I lost my virginity to after she acted cold to me one too many times on a date. I thought the best thing would be to set up a date with this other hotty I'd had my eye on for a long time. We agreed to...

Anyway a 20-min coffee date is sorta too short, don't you think? Especially if she's coming all the way from her home to meet you. If a chick is interesting I usually can't wrap up a conversation in less than 2 hours.

Turn her down. Tell her that you don't like online chatting because it doesn't measure up to real conversation (after all 50% of conversation is tone of voice/body language and all that). Maybe it's just me, but any girl who's not going to make the effort and be adventurous enough to meet up...

Oh god, how the hell am I going to able to sit down on the bus/subway tomorrow without having to hold my bag in front of my pants when I get up? :rolleyes:

Day 3 is always the tough once. I'm strapping on my titanium chastity belt right now.. :p

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