whats failure for you...............MUST READ!!!!!!!!!!

[improvingdonjuan]

what do you consider failure? what do you consider succes?

is failure to you getting rejected, not getting the numbers, getting a cold and *****y responce? is failure not getting any puzzy? is it aproaching a girl and getting so nervous you do something stupid? is faliure going for the kiss and the girl backing away. is failure touching a girls boobs when you are making out and getting told "slow down youre moving too fast" do you consider that failure?.............................
YOU ARE FREAKING WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i ll tell you what failure is, FAILURE is not having enough sugar in your testicles to do something about it. thats failure. you see a girl and stand there admiring her beuty but unable to say or do anything cause you are terrified to "Fail" (get rejected) or you dont make a move cause you dont want to get rejected, you dont ask for her number cause you dont want to get rejected, FAILURE IS NOT TRYING ANYTHING AT ALL

because you see, when you are too afraid of approaching or making your moves you are failing to grasp the DJ mentality and if you dont change your ways you will remain a loser, all of those horrible things that you call failing (getting rejected) are what i call SUCCES!!! yes, succes,

you see when you act, you have balls to do it. you are actualy trying to change you loser and pathetic ways. regardless of what happens you are still succeding in exercicing the DJ muscle (yes it is a muscle [and im not talking about your mojo either

] you see exercise makes your muscles stronger, same as DJing it makes you more experienced)

what separates a dj from an AFC is not how many times the AFC gets rejected or how many times the dj gets rejected, because to tell you the truth a dj gets rejected more than an AFC and here is why

1 the AFC is too damm scared to even try (he doesnt get rejected but he aint getting any puzzy either)

2 AFC doesnt get rejected cause he goes out with the "sure thing" so his ego will not break (yeah but that sure thing is a way ugly biatch and is below his standards) but hey he's happy to get anything he can get since he cant be picky or he cant choose, he has to make the girl happy and the girl always picks (or else its not nice)


YOU see its dont be afraid of rejection be afraid of not taking action, because that is FAILURE if you dont take action because you are too scared to do it then you might friend are a loser.



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CONFIDENCE AND HUMOR ARE THE KEY TO HER HEART

be confident,homorous,and charming and you will be succesful in life because people think of you as highly as you think of yourself
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THE DJ BIBLE

 

[Centaurion]

a very good post indeed...

 

[improvingdonjuan]

bump, this is something i wrote a long time ago but it might help you guys get a perspective on things (if you are still to afraid of putting the theory into practice)

 

[Don of Truth]

Good post

I think the popular quote by TR is appropriate here:

"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."

~~Teddy Roosevelt

 

[Microphone Fiend]

i liked this post a lot, i just wish you'd revised it to be easier on the eyes, but i guess the truth doesn't need to be sugar-coated

 

[alboh]

improvingdon, just wanted to thank you. I've had a horrible week girl-wise. I dumped the girl I lost my virginity to after she acted cold to me one too many times on a date. I thought the best thing would be to set up a date with this other hotty I'd had my eye on for a long time. We agreed to meet up tonight...and I got stood up!

I came home feeling like total sh!t...I have little experience with girls and so far it's all been bad. But I think it was a great coincidence that you bumped this post when you did, I feel alot better now and I'm ready to go back out and fight the good fight!

 

[The Irish Corleone]

bump

 

[krasnyiLion]

great post. from an Old DJ.
he is 100% right.

maybe i should tart going back and bringing out of the shelfs the old advice of the great DJ's of the past who knew their sh*t. and had ballz!!!!!!!!!!

APROACH, GET REJECTED BUT MOST OF ALL HAVE FUN!!!!

 

[insanity]

i've bombed at so many things i don't even know what the word failure means anymore, i'm immune to it. i've been told though that for every plan that goes wrong for me i always have another plan and another and another infinity. i never give up. a quitter never wins and a winner never quits.

 

[BingoBango]

very good post. cheers