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oneitis - for a man this means that he`s tied his self-worth to the approval of a woman`s view of him. oneitis - for a woman this means that she`s fallen in love and is totally smitten with a man. For the man, oneitis is to be avoided always, even though he may be in a marriage that has...

Griffman, The DJ view is one that is all encompassing and far seeing. It`s not about just getting women. It`s about getting better in all areas of your life, of which women are a small part. In fact, any women would be privileged to be part of a DJ`s life because he has it together in...

silverfox, Why is it a negative rut? You`re not meeting the kinds of women that you want? So what, you will. Friends of yours are coupled up? So what, you will be too when you`re ready. You see couples everywhere you go, especially during the holidays? So what, you`ll have the babe...

\O/, Like everything, it all starts with you and your perceptions. From that comes curiousity and the drive/desire to understand, followed by action and then finally experience. At the very end is debriefing or dissection if you will, where initial perceptions are weighed against the...

IronFar, That was then, and this is now. And yes I was more AFC back in those days but never the nerd...LOL. Cheers, Mav

Here you go guys: Sir Chancealot`s Advanced Sexual Techniques Cheers, Mav

Hi All, This is a long post and it`s going to be juvenile and goofy too I expect in some ways, but we`ve all had nights like these with our good friends. Enjoy. When I was in university, a few of us would have guys` nights out where we`d go shoot some pool, drink (except for me, in which...

Red_Tiger, Thanks for the compliment. I don`t drink but do go to pubs from time to time and am always the designated driver when it`s a boys night out. In fact, I`ve got a story from my university, AFC days about that. I think I`ll post that one in a bit. Cheers, Mav

Yes, the advice from Socialreject regarding the internal dialogue is solid. It`s amazing how much we deride ourselves when it`s the inner voice that should be the most supportive. We`ll say things to belittle ourselves and our efforts in the most harsh manner; things that we would never say...

dax, Yup, that does clear up the picture some more. I understand your situation because I`m a single father myself (my son is with his mother). I`ve also seen single mothers along the way and it was always in my mind that if things got exclusive and serious, would the blended families get...

Egoist, When a quality woman enters your life and the connection with her is working out, this doesn`t mean that the other parts of your life fall by the wayside. Far from it. If you have genuine passions and are in pursuit of things that get you fired up and have you greet every waking...

Red_Tiger, Nostalgia is exactly that isn`t it? A longing or admiration of times past and life or lifestyles now relegated to history. This is your time. The here and now is the time to make your mark on the world. The past exists to serve as example and warning. It`s not meant to be...

dax, You don`t mention anything about the father or fathers of the children, whose mother you`re seeing. Are they stand-up guys or are they morons, d!ckheads, absent from the co-parenting of their kids, etc.? I would weigh-in having to deal with the father(s) in my decision to continue...

itstough, Instead of wondering about it, go and find out. The next time this woman stares at you, smile at her and then make the approach. I don`t know if ****y and funny works for you, but I would say something to her like, "Hi. I know you can`t help staring but don`t make it so...

Man_O'War, The first steps are always the hardest and most painful. You`ll stumble, stub your toes, fall on your face and maybe even question why you`re doing this in the first place. This is true of anything that doesn`t come naturally but is desired. Those first tentative steps will...

Re: Bangkok ... Hmm ... LOL...that`s the last twist needed in this sordid tale.

TheMig, Excellent strategy. Nothing like getting out there and earning your stripes. You know yourself well. Some would go out when they knew their game was off and then complain about it later. As long as it isn`t fear or self-doubt, taking a night off from approaching the ladies is a...

Man_O'War, Welcome to the board. You`re not a loser. You`re that one in millions of your father`s seed that made it to fertilize an egg from your mother to conceive the child that was you. You`re a born winner. Everything negative that has happened in the past should be relegated to...

TheMig, Thanks for the compliment. I`ll try to live up to being the wise guy. Sorry, couldn`t resist the double entendre. Yeah, I hear what you`re saying. I too was overly analytical and technical, once upon a time, when it came to women. In fact, if you`ve read the article by David D...

d.k.kong, Oh man, I love those kinds of awkward situations because they`re so much fun to work with. The next time this HB works on or cleans your teeth, at the end of the session, say something like, "Since you had me on my back, and I didn`t get wined and dined, tell me your phone number...