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pancakepalace, Keep it warm and friendly with her when talking on the phone, but don't spend too much time with her on the phone either. Being warm and friendly means being relaxed and cordial. That's it. Don't talk about the "relationship" on the phone. Once you see her in person...

Exactly. Attraction isn't a choice. If you cultivate and then merge those attractive attitudes and skills into your personality, women will respond positively. Spot on again. If the girl's into you all she wants to do is spend time with you. What you do and where you go is secondary...

Rollo Tomassi, Thanks for the elaboration. Yes, I'm very aware of the shift that occurs when both men and women age. Their respective currencies on the singles or marriage market wax and wane. I would agree that it seems like for realnycguy, his friend may not be genuinely attracted to...

BramhaBull60, Ok, gotcha. I just misunderstood some of your original post then...my bad. Cheers, Mav

BramhaBull60, How is observing women and watching another guy crash and burn better than the Boot Camp here on sosuave? "There's knowing the path and then there's walking it." Unless you yourself have tried the Boot Camp, you only have an opinion based on a THEORETICAL frame of...

Way to go! RabidDog, Good job. Nicely done. It's on with this one, you do realize that right? It sounds like you're doing fine recognizing the opportunities and seizing them. Keep it going. Don't worry about the slip-ups. Remember what Pook said, "Perfect is boring." Keep...

LikRetsam, The funny thing is that "Hi" works better in the U.S. than "Hello" and the opposite is true in Canada, at least from my own experience. Other sosuavers may have different opinions on this. Cheers, Mav

crotchrocket, To answer your original question, regarding calling or emailing, I always make the initial contact after getting her email addy or digits. I NEVER GIVE MINE OUT TO THE CHICK WHEN GETTING HERS. Why you ask? It's because I'm qualifying her and I'll only pony up my email addy...

00Kevin, LOL. We can always count on stern reality checks from you. Agreed. Moving ahead is always the way to go. Thanks for the reminder. Cheers, Mav

NoMoreMisterNiceGuy, I agree with all the contents of your post save what's in the quote above. Attraction isn't a choice. If a guy knows how to trigger and amplify a girl's attraction for him, then he's WAY AHEAD of most guys that are clueless about pulling chicks. Just my 2 cents...

Glenfiddich101, On those days and occasions when you're not seeing her, you trust her to not go on safari to meet other guys right? If so, leave her alone and don't sweat it. If your radar and gut instinct isn't being tripped then relax. Just my 2 cents. Cheers, Mav

Guys, Being in an LTR necessarily means that the girl's baggage, problems and hang-ups become yours as well as vice versa. If in the qualifying stages you've decided that you not only can handle your problems but the girl's as well then things are golden. If at a later stage something...

Guys, The value of networking cannot be overstated. It can help you tremendously in your professional and personal life. You never know how the next person you're going to meet may help you in the future and vice versa. Sometimes you do have to burn bridges with people in life but...

Guys, Being here on this forum, going through the Boot Camp, applying the DJ Bible, etc. is a journey. The journey is to: a) Find out what works for you so that you can integrate/incorporate it into your personality so that it becomes second nature. b) Become the strong, capable...

Ricky, Duuuuude, you need a boy's night out where you and your buddies figuratively give all women the finger for the night and you guys just chill and goof off. If you're so wound up about this current dilemma of yours...take a break. Seriously, stop seeing women for awhile. Take a...

91redrotary, Dude, I'm really sorry for your friend but the guy should've been more discerning where he went fishing. Damn, this is the dark side of DJ'ing, that's for sure. Your friend's situation should serve as a resounding example to everyone of why it's so important to use...

bignick79, Dude if you're attracted to this girl, totally go for it. Approach the situation as if she's totally interested and available. Ditto on Desdinova's advice. Be relaxed and have fun with her. You want to show this girl that you can be that great, fun guy in her life, if...