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  1. J

    need some advice

    do me a favour, the next time you see her, grab her, pull her into your arms and kiss her for gods sake.
  2. J

    the techniques here work TOO well..

    IMO, you're doing just fine. all the best mate. have fun while you're at it.
  3. J

    why the hell does oneitis last so damn long? help me figure it out guys.

    wow. thought the above post made some sense. oneitis lasts because we have big imaginations. we always picture ourselves with our oneitis, dreaming up good memories that may or may not have happened. what ever it is, it sure prevents us from forgetting about her. and even when you meet new...
  4. J

    freaky...

    DJD hit the nail right on its bloody head. as usual he makes the most sense.
  5. J

    why the hell does oneitis last so damn long? help me figure it out guys.

    see, oneitis happens to the best of us... i'm glad to know i'm not the only one who feels this way sometimes, its like a horrid little flashback that keeps repeating itself. and raptor, i think your last line says it all, "i wish there was a way to get over it, but i don't think there truly...
  6. J

    why the hell does oneitis last so damn long? help me figure it out guys.

    so you think you've found her, your perfect mate. one tiny problem, she doesn't like you, one big problem, you're infatuated with her. and it goes on, for months and years... you secretly wish some day she might just miraculously change her mind and fall for you. you don't know why, its that...
  7. J

    Ex-oneitus's Bday is coming up

    i feel you FM 3312, the same thing happened with my ex. i just sent her a text over the festive holidays saying 'greetings of the season, take care always.. i miss you babe" no reply. its like she's dead or something. anyways, her birthday is coming up in march, don't think i'd be wishing her...
  8. J

    First time clubbing

    may i ask how old you are? you may not have enjoyed the club scene because you went to one that catered for the youth. most teens like rap.R&B, crowded clubs. you should try the acid jazz bars, or some place that plays music for your tastes, and the people there are of your age group.
  9. J

    Is the guy expected to call?

    you like her right, yet you're not calling her, why can't you spare a few minutes of your day to call her? stop acting like an idiot for crying out loud. just pick up the phone and dial oh, and how can you not come off as needy and hard to get? they are two different things thank you very...
  10. J

    Is the guy expected to call?

    she's probably wondering why you can't take 10 minutes out of YOUR day to make contact with her. call her dammit. just to set up a date or something...
  11. J

    need some help FAST!

    excellent. well done mate. all the best
  12. J

    What woman **REALLY** want

    its not don joan as you so coyly put it, but its don juan. and this has got to be one of the dumbest posts i have ever read in my life. thanks for the laugh buddy, its amazing you got laid. and apparently you haven't read enough of the bible, for you simply assume that all men apart from...
  13. J

    Blushing

    haha, great example mate, thanks! i'll be sure to use it the next time some girl says that.
  14. J

    weird things happen today

    next time you make eye contact with a chick, if she looks away quickly then looks at you again when you appear not to be paying attention, look her straight back and wink at her. that's worked for me.
  15. J

    need some help FAST!

    this is a bit cheesy, but i think it'll work you: hey (insert her name), me and my mate are filming this short film for english class, and we need a beautiful young girl to play (insert role), would you do us the honour? (this way she cannot decline because you make her sound like a...
  16. J

    To Hook Up or Not to Hook Up

    god, this reminds me of the song "fourteen". have a look guys. I've watched you grow for all these years and shamefully admit, I've loved to watch you blossom and it's awful hard to quit feeling these feelings stirring up inside of me. You nearly are a woman now and in a couple years...
  17. J

    She didn't know it was a date? (She's not even blonde)

    oh man, the exact same thing occured to me before. i took this chick out, it went pretty smoothly and a few weeks later i hear from a friend that she's going around telling everyone that i took her on a date against her will, and that she didnt even know it was a date, she thought it was a...
  18. J

    Friendship --> Dating (not the obvious question)

    do the talking on the date. otherwise if you carry out too many conversations on the phone or on IM, you could run out of things to say eventually. take it from me on this one mate. all the best
  19. J

    No, we can't just be friends!

    dearsappho what the guy means, or how i interpret it as "The only woman you should ever be friends with is your girlfriend. you seduce her first, (note that you were never really considered friends), when she proves her worth to you, and you guys are in a relationship, you can let your...
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