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I remember that performance. It makes me sad. Michael Jackson brought joy to a lot of people. He will be missed.

Well just to update some more. I got approached tonight yet again by a girl for a grind session. I didn't make any approaches on my own though. I dress better but I no longer have the confidence to approach. I feel like the rejection is bound to occur if I try to make any moves myself.

Unless you have some real evidence (like text messages, people spotting her with her ex, catching her in a lie), you shouldn't worry about the ex. Otherwise, you will just come off insecure and needy, which will drive her away faster than any ex-boyfriend will.

One time, I was at a club and someone grabbed my butt. I turned around, and a girl admitted it was her and told me I had a nice butt. So I asked her if she wanted to dance but she said no. Go figure!

A lot of people go to bars by themselves. The bartender was probably just upset that the guy didn't tip nor buy enough drinks.

Well, just to update, I just got back from the same spot. The good news is that I did dance with a girl. Once again, I was the one who was approached. The streak of rejections has ended but I'm not sure if that moment of success could be attributed to a change in wardrobe or just the luck of...

Good point!

I'm a 27 year old black man. Only one person I know has commented on how I was starting to get bald but for the most part, my hair is fine as long as I keep it low. I understand what you are saying about girls looking nice, so I know I have to change my style. However, the last time I went, I...

Hmmm...interesting perspective.

Thanks. I'll see if I can find a shirt similar to that in my closet.

Thanks for the advice. Any advice on what to wear? I don't care how critical you are, if there is something else you want to tell me, please do so.

I've been going to nightclubs recently and I have been getting shot down left and right by girls at this one spot I hit up. The only two times I've gotten to dance is when I was approached by the girl. I'll be honest. I haven't been clubbing in almost three years but I thought I could get...

Very true. By the way he looked and spoke, he reminded me of an asian Cole Hauser, and girls can't get enough of that guy.

That is until she tosses you to the curb. Let's face it, we can't keep girls that we aren't into from falling for us much like the AFC who can't keep from getting his heart broken by the girl he really loved. We all want what we can't have.

I'm going for that Calvin Klein look.

Not every guy is looking to move in on another guy's girlfriend. Sometimes, he is just being nice and looking for a different type of opening - a way out!!!!

It seems like the guy can't let go. You shouldn't make an issue out of it. I doubt your girl will go back to a guy who behaves like this. If she does, well, you are not going to be losing much. Just enjoy the ride but don't expect too much.

Do not say anything about it UNLESS she is canceling dates with you to spend time with this guy. Don't change your regular routine with your girlfriend just to get more of her attention. Think about how you and your girlfriend usually spent your time together before this guy started showing...

Would you agree that some girls get turned off by a guy who takes himself too seriously?

I was just joking around. I don't think that anyone should use a witty line for this type of situation unless he is going to do it in a joking way and then move on with his life. If nothing else, you at least come out looking like someone who can find the humor in a situation.