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I don’t judge someone coming out of a LTR or a long marriage for sleeping with a sub par woman as their first dip into the dating world to gain some confidence or just enjoy the experience of someone different (I did this myself). Just don’t date them too long; pump and dump if possible...

Keep living the dream brother. I’m curious to hear how whether your interest in new girls has decreased, increased or remained the same the more you have added to your notch count. Dan Bilzarian said he got to a point with new women where it was like a hole that could never be filled and he...

Some nationalities such as Asians hold their looks much later into their 40s and 50s compared to others. My Asian GF is 48 and looks 38. If you are into older women you may want to take this into account. I think the majority of men prefer much younger women but as you age this becomes...

Good post. The only point I slightly disagree with is number 9. I only gained confidence with women much later in life and at 57 am doing much better compared to when I was younger. I would say that while you may have access to much more attractive/younger women in your youth, you may not...

Having had children myself it’s natural for any parent to put their kids first at least up until the high school years when the hormones kick in, they are more independent and they no longer want to hang around you. As a parent you want to get the most out of the time you have with them when...

Great. Spent New Years Eve and the next morning getting completely drained in the bedroom by my younger GF. This morning you could put a dozen OnlyFans models in front of me and I would struggle to get any movement downstairs.

Having too many rules screams insecurity. People need to feel free in a relationship. The more you try to control someone the more that person will feel trapped and resentful. I only address poor behaviour when it actually happens and I have reliable evidence. I need to have a high degree of...

Many Asian women hold their looks and figures well into their 40s compared to Western women. My current 48 year old Asian GF can still rock a two piece thong bikini the size of a postage stamp and panics if she goes above 55kg in body weight. Even though most women over 50 cannot be compared to...

Women are initially attracted to guys with confidence and a personality who can make them laugh, stimulate their emotions, treat them well without simping, listen to them talk without talking about and big noting themselves and dominating the conversation and are not afraid to voice their own...

The main aim of OLD is for you to set up an offline date as quick as possible once you have established some rapport. You shouldn’t be endlessly texting. If you ask for a date and she declines or makes an excuse then move on to other prospects politely. I never go scorched earth on a woman who...

I’ve had success only through OLD. I’m 56 and couldn’t be bothered hitting the ****tail bar scene. A few girls have shown me the OLD profiles of the guys who have hit them up. I would estimate 85% of them are just woeful in terms of looks, photo choice, bio, opening lines etc. As bad as you...

Just stick to escorts. Less financial investment, less hassle and your options in terms of variety (age, looks, nationality, body type etc.) are endless. I’ve never paid for s*x but I suspect if that is your only form of female affection/company it will get soul destroying aeventually. I...

I wouldn’t recommend moving in with a girl until at least the 3 year mark. And even then I would take insurance with a pre nup or similar After 3 years you should know whether she still has genuine desire for you which will manifest itself in the bedroom. While the quality and quantity of s*x...

Unicorns are mythical creatures. They don’t exist and neither do unicorn men or women. As humans we are all flawed to various degrees and if you seek perfection in a partner you will be eternally single. Spinning plates or the DJ lifestyle is fine if you are young and have no desire for...

Spinning plates is fun…..until it isn’t. Unless you have unlimited time, money, patience and energy the novelty will wear off eventually, especially if you are not getting much in return for your efforts or you don’t actually enjoy being around a woman from the s*x. Hedonic adaptation will...

I treat my gym the same way I treat work. Don’t sh*t where you eat. No one wants to feel uncomfortable at their work or gym because of a DJ move that didn’t work out.

A few women I have dated around 50 or so (I’m 56) have commented that they will lose interest in s*x eventually when I say that physical compatibility is important to me. It’s not what I want to hear; it’s like they are looking forward to it. I also found it unbelievable through talking to...

My current main girlfriend can only climax being on top of me cowgirl style and riding me so hard that I have chafing if it goes on for any length of time ( if I last that long which I usually don’t). I’m talking headboard/bed shaking and **** breaking hard. She can’t climax from any other...

I’ve noticed I tend to put a lot of effort into pleasing my partner in the bedroom so this post is opportune. While men generally are expected to lead in the bedroom all the effort can’t be put on the man every time. Next time I’m thinking of just asking for a BJ and seeing what the response...

Every woman has some kind of psychological issue. It’s just a matter of the degree of crazy and what you are prepared to put up with. As for the hotter the girl the crazier the girl theory my only experience with a subjective 9 who was 10 years my junior (I’m 56) happened last week. Found out...