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Everyone hits a wall sooner or later. Statistical research, biology, and cultural phenomena pretty soundly demonstrate, however, that age and time detract from a man's SMV less than it does from a woman's. I think it's clear the OP is targeting his polemic at a small minority of women who...

Great point. Stress (heightened cortisol levels), lack of sleep, lack of exercise, poor diet, will all lower your testosterone levels pretty significantly and that will hit your confidence and ability to be positive.

Politics and religion are absolutely off-limits until you've had sex with her. If the topic gets brought up in a date (ie. she asks you or is goading you into a political conversation) then own it. Own your values, beliefs, who you are, without apologizing or explaining.

Really depends on what you're looking for. If you are Catholic and you want a Catholic wife, it doesn't hurt to mention it. On my OKC profile I state that I'm Catholic but "it's not important." A lot of the sexy girls local in my area (North Jersey) are Hispanic, Filipina or Italian so it's not...

Losing your center and balance like this indicates lack of confidence and emotional weakness, and that you need validation from women. It's EXTREMELY unattractive. Don't let yourself sink into this hole. You'll have even less options with women if you do.

Makes some sense. Average-looking girls are more likely to validate themselves through promiscuity. Hot girls don't need the same self-esteem support.

In OLD, women screen men exactly the same way men screen women IRL. The harsh reality is that looks trump everything in OLD. Short or otherwise physically unattractive men are just going to get their egos dinged in OLD regardless of how charming their self-summaries are, which is why it can be a...

The thing to keep in mind with OLD is that the ONLY thing a woman is going on are your photos you provided. That’s it. Given that even average-looking women are deluged by male interest and thus have an inflated perception of their dating market value from these sites, they are going to be much...

There are a lot of losers on OLD sites, for sure. Approaching women online is easy. It doesn’t require effort, courage, confidence, or skill. It doesn't require you to grow a pair and be a man. You type 'hey,' click send, and hope she likes your pics. That's it. What you put in is what you'll...

Yep. The key value-add components that a relationship offers a woman's life (physical companionship and closeness, day-to-day intimacy, safety and security, and oh yeah, regular sex) are missing. Your presence in her life is primarily a phone screen and a date in the calendar for your next...

Among her age cohort (late teens/early 20’s it would seem) she correctly links toxic masculinity (exaggerated machismo employed to seek attention and male peer approval, usually manifested in excessive risk-taking behavior) with ‘super alpha males,’ although later incorrectly links it to needy...

This is true in concept, that being the most attractive version of yourself will convey abundance in and of itself. But this can't turn into rubbing other women, or the possibility of other women, in your woman's face. You do run the risk of emotionally alienating your woman if she feels like...

Yes the key is to maintain the dominant alpha frame at all times. It must never be ambiguous or beta, as if this is the case, your attempts to be 'alpha' will come off as controlling and ulterior, and will repulse her. You are the man, she is the woman, you call the shots and she submits, you...

Well then what exactly is the source of her trust issues? Perhaps, but it would depend on a few things. By 'not exclusive' what was the nature of their relationship? Were they just casually dating? Did she consider herself still single? Was she honest with the new guy about what had happened...

You are 100% correct. Men who are authentically alpha and abundant aren't afraid of showing their women that they love them out of fear of appearing "beta." They don't rigidly adhere to some draconian dogma of game so prevalent in red pill circles ("never ever do this, never ever say that, be...

Women who harbor strong feelings for their ******* exes are harboring feelings for their strength and confidence, not that they were *******s. Authentically strong, alpha men transcend the need to be an ******* to convey their dominance. They demonstrate that they CAN BE *******s when necessary...

Why exactly is HER trust in YOU broken when she was messing around behind her new guy's back? Since you are the dumper, it's up to you to make the effort to get her back if you want her back. I wouldn't do the letter, just make it clear to her that you want to give it another chance. If she...

Women are going to vacillate between the alpha's and the beta's (as Rollo Tomassi terms 'alpha fvcks beta bucks') to satisfy either side of her sexual strategy -- the desire to fornicate for superior genetics (alpha fvcks), and the desire for a mate who will nest and provide resources for the...

It sounds like you are focused on the relationship, on the feelings, and too easily affected by her emotional ebb and flow. You were okay in asking her 'hey what's up lately?' but the 'I sit her down and asked her if the love was over for her, we can do this quietly and peacefully and each go...

It's going to depend on how frequently you can see each other, and whether there is a definite reunion date in the future. I would say once a month minimum, and up to a year maximum. As for having a 'don't ask don't tell' open relationship, that really depends on you and her. Would you be okay...