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So I'm 24 (and gonna be 25 in August) and I feel like its pretty accurate description for myself to say that I'm a failure in the dating world by inaction. I've never had a girlfriend, and I've only been on one date and had sex one time and that was almost 3 years ago now. And that girl gave me...

Yeah I know, I just don’t want this trend to continue on where everyone just assumes I’m just gonna be alone my whole life.

So tonight I went jogging with my friend and before I left, my dad was saying that I should go down to the beach and get a girl and a couple other things that about me getting a girl. The reason why he was saying all this is because my friend is bi (but he goes for guys more) and my cousin on...

No I already knew that I needed to lose weight lol, it just really needs to happen if other people are saying stuff about it.

So I'm 24, 5'11 and the last time I weighed myself I was in the low 200's. I used to do tree trimming with a family business and that kept my weight at a normal level because it was such a psychically strenuous job, but I've gained more ever since I stopped doing that because the amount of...

Sorry this ran a little bit long, didn't intend it to but I had a lot to say about my situation. So I'm gonna read the DJ bible for the first time and stick to the daily reading schedule, but I think I'm gonna need more help than what it can teach me. I'm 24 and gonna be turning 25 later on...

Like the title says, I'm 24 and never had a girlfriend and I have no dating/relationship experience. I've only been on 1 date and have had sex once back when I was 21, but I don't think that's enough to count as dating experience. I got into this situation because I have very low confidence...

First of all, how is it considered stalking if all I'm doing is viewing her Snapchat story, which is up for everyone on her friends list to view? That's literally all I did and just wrote about what I saw here, that's not stalking because that's something that everyone does. And also, I...

Yeah I know now that I really fu*ked up and I should've come on here and also to other sites and read texting guides before I ever sent that first text to her. Like I was saying earlier, I kind of think she was happy and excited to hear from me at the VERY beginning because she thought that I...

Glad that worked out for you, that's exactly what I should've done instead, just had my texts to her be short, simple, and to the point and let her be the one to write the long replies.

Yeah we didn't and that was a really bad first phone conversation between the two of us. There definitely was no mystery and nothing left up to her imagination after what I did, the only thing that was a result of my messages was boredom and predictability on my part when it should've been more...

I make a point of not putting the pu$sy on the pedestal, I think it was more of me being a blabbing idiot who made a mistake that most guys my age with half a brain wouldn't ever make. But she actually did know me before this, did you see where I wrote in my first post that we worked together...

Exactly, and that's why looking back on our conversation now, I kind of think that at the VERY beginning she was happy and excited to hear from me because she thought I was gonna ask her out, but then quickly lost interest in me and saw that didn't have the confidence and courage to ask her out...

You just described me better than I ever could have, that's why I said in an earlier reply that I kind of think I subconsciously made those mistakes when texting her on purpose in order to fit the narrative that my mind and conscious already know, just like how you said.

Yeah I get that, it can be pretty funny to see other people's cringeworthy fails, I'm guilty of doing the same. I don't think things can be salvaged with this girl, I feel like I blew it with her anything else would be a lost cause.

Yeah that's what happens when you're almost never around any girls, you develop oneitis with the girl that you are interested in because no other girls are around, now its back to square one. And yeah you probably should go and talk to that girl in person again if she's stalling.

Yep, that's better than my long As$ and sh*tty texting performance. I still feel like sh*t because of how badly I messed up, I also feel like a huge idiot for messing up so early on.

1. Yeah I know I didn't, I saw myself making that mistake and I did nothing to fix it. I guess I just figured that it was too late to fix it by adding that in later in the conversation, it should've been there from the beginning. 2. I agree, I basically bored her to death and that explains...

Thanks for the advice, I'm gonna bookmark it and keep it in mind for next time. I still just feel like sh*t right now because of how badly I messed up and that I killed any interest that could've been there with this very poor texting performance.

Its not so much getting rejected by this one girl as it is all of the negative thoughts about this and how rejection will always happen to me every time would get confirmed if she rejected me and then I would probably become very depressed. I already slipped into a pretty bad depression just...