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Today was another example of how clueless and oblivious I am to a girl’s signals. So every year for the past 6 years I’ve done a seasonal summer job in an exhibit at the county fair that lasts for about a month and a half. And there’s a girl that I work with who I used to be into a couple years...

Ok so last night for Halloween, I went over to my friend’s house because he asked to borrow an inflatable haunted castle that I have so that we can hand out candy in it. On Halloween just a couple hours before I go over there, he tells me that he also invited a girl that he knows from work and...

Yeah I see what you mean about introverted girls, I was into a girl who was extremely introverted last year, but I f*cked it up when I texted her for the first time. It made me realize how weak my texting game is and needs to be improved. I’m glad it didn’t work out with her though after I...

I’m going to, but I gotta save up some money for rent to get started and get a better car first like I said. So I’m too low in social value to even be in the dating world right now, even though I’m not someone who does nothing but sit at home playing video games and binge watching Netflix?

That’s pretty true, I went to community college but stopped going because I realized that it wasn’t for me, but there was no social aspect to it at all because everyone just went to listen to the lectures in class and then went home. I’m friends with some people from my seasonal job like I said...

I’d prefer to have a relationship but I’m not opposed to hooking up and have once before, I don’t think I would do good on a motorcycle because I never even ride a bike lol, the best I could do is a nicer car. It sucks that this is probably gonna screw over my chances for a relationship though...

That’s a great strategy and I hope it works out for you! I still live at home right now but I want to move out, rent in my area is just so expensive though and I want to move to a different city but stay within the same county, the average rent on a studio apartment here is about $1,100 a month...

Wow you’re so dead on accurate that it honestly took me by surprise. Yes I do have other problems and I will explain them while trying not to make this too long, but it is a lot to say. For my entire life I’ve always believed that dating and a love life will never happen for me, this stems from...

Yeah but I don’t know if that would be the case if its one sided because they’ll want to meet my social circle at some point and it might not go over well when they learn that I don’t have one. I feel like part of the reason why this issue hasn’t been resolved is because for the most part I’ve...

Yeah I agree and I definitely had to get some bad people out of my life even if that meant lowering my number of friends. I know that they won’t be meeting my friends until later on, probably not until things could possibly be moving towards a relationship, but I know that the time to meet each...

I had a feeling that it would, and the fact that I have no dating experience at 25 will probably fuel that even more, it could make me come off as a total social reject. I’m not sure if you read my whole post or not though, but I do still have 1 friend who I hang out with all the time and I have...

TL;DR I used to have a social circle but because of bad circumstances, I don’t have one anymore and that along with having no dating experience at 25 is keeping me out of the dating world. Hey DJ’s, so I have no actual social circle as the title says and this is a result of bad circumstance...

Maybe I misinterpreted what you were saying, I took it as her asking that when you two are in bed together and about to do it and then she asks, from your reply it seems like you meant that she would ask before you two go to bed, and it wouldn’t be a mood killer in that case. And from what...

That seems like it would be a mood killer if she actually asked before we have sex, how experienced are you and how many girls have you been with?

Just checked this thread since I first created it and thank you everyone for all the advice. I’ve also thought of it as not as bad to lie or exaggerate about how experienced you are to the first girl that you date because its pretty much a guarantee that it won’t last (which should be the case...

So I’m turning 25 this August and I’ve never had a girlfriend, I have had sex before though back when I hooked up with a girl that I met at my summer job 3 years ago, I haven’t had sex since then and that was the only time I’ve had sex. So I don’t feel as bad about turning 25 since I won’t be...

Yeah I know that confidence is my main issue with this and always has been, I'm probably gonna hire a dating coach though. His name is Frank Kermit and he's not your run of the mill PUA, he actually has some pretty impressive qualifications and has addressed several of my issues in what I've...

Thanks for your reply, its good to hear from someone who's in such a similar situation to me. How did you get rid of the mindset that its too late and that no girls will want you because you're inexperienced? I've had this mindset since I first turned 20 and its really held me back. I just...

No, none of that because I always assume that I'll get a very negative reaction from a move like that.

Damn that sucks that happened to you after 5 dates! Training body I definitely agree with, but I can't even get to the point of going on a date. I've never tried dating apps before because I still have the mindset that I will get no matches on any of them if I decide to give it a try (I've even...