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I would be curious to hear some examples of this behavior from her. Some of it may be disrespect (low attraction), some of it may be confidence testing (high attraction), some of it may be emotional bidding (need for reassurance that you're connected with her).

This, along with "my phone died" is always a lie. Women have their phones attached to their hands at all times. Their phones do not go uncharged for more than 15 minutes unless they are stranded in the wilderness. If you feel this way about her, then you should have a foot out the door. Some...

What I’m saying is that gay men, especially in the past, will externally conform to heteronormativity to prevent ostracism or even persecution. We all have an innate, driving desire to “fit in” and be members of a human tribe. We also have an innate, driving desire to not be targeted. Knowing...

This really supports the argument that homosexuals will go through certain lengths to keep their orientation a secret, for fear of social or sometimes fatal consequences — as opposed to simply “re-educating” themselves to like pvssy. And I don’t think you have any factual assurance in your claim...

I personally don’t draw a distinction between homosexuals and bisexuals. And while I believe it’s possible for a gay man to eventually conform to prevailing norms and live his life as a conventional straight man, I don’t believe this ever results from a true change in his sexual orientation.

His older sister.

Most gay men I’ve known were not bi, but not super queeny gay either. I agree there’s usually an absence of a positive father figure, which is often the root of their neuroticism and low esteem (my cousin, who recently came out, had a very strained relationship with his conservative father who...

Equating homosexuality with addiction runs into a key problem — there are plenty of recovered addicts around. There are no recovered gays. That is because homosexuality cannot be undone, unlearned, deconditioned, or cured. Which again presents fairly incontrovertible evidence that genetic...

Because this suggests that gay men have "learned" to be, and to do, something that in many societies will result in their ostracization, torture, and/or execution. If it were a simple matter of cognitive conditioning, they should be able to undo it, rather than continue the unwanted behavior...

Testosterone levels do not cause sexual orientation, it's correlative. Studies seem to support the anecdotal observations we have of very effeminate men -- they tend to be gay. Of course, high-T men can be gay, and low-T men can be straight. It's not causal. Again, it's a combination of nature...

Like nearly all human conditions, homosexuality results from a combination of nature and nurture. In other words, genetics loads the gun, environment/upbringing pulls the trigger. Homosexuality is scientifically correlated with low natural testosterone levels, so it's partially genetic...

Anyone familiar with the NYC area will know of Hoboken, NJ a.k.a Broboken. Once a seedier working class town with a mafia underbelly, it's now a vibrant nightlife town with more liquor licenses per square mile than any other municipality in the US. The night crowd is predominantly white...

In all reality, the "trendiness" of trans is really confined to entertainment media and far-left cohorts (which have become more closely inter-linked), which has to kowtow to militant trans activists who label anything not promoting transsexualism as bigotry. The reason it's so prevalent on the...

Correct. $100K is a lower-middle class lifestyle (maybe a little higher for a bachelor) in the NYC metro area and it means either roommates or a tiny studio if you want to live in Manhattan. The advantage of Manhattan, however, is that you can meet attractive women from all walks of life, all...

I’m introverted by nature. Some of the hottest girls I pulled were when I was chimed up on coke. I usually couldn’t impress them in bed afterwards, however. It’s a double-edged sword. Blow is social rocket fuel. People saying “if you need drugs to pull, you’re lost” have a point. I agree. It’s...

My brother’s ex fiancée was sexually abused as a child. She was a perennial victim. Trauma in childhood prevents maturity past the age where the trauma occurred. She had zero accountability for unacceptable, childish outbursts. It was always “you did this to me, you did that to me” etc etc. She...

OP, just set up a date and see where it goes. Be flirty, have fun, and seduce. Way too many men treat a 1st date like a wife interview. Don't fall into that mindset. I think researching a stranger's photos in the fear that there's some huge discrepancy in her appearance is paranoid. Most women...

To add, I once dated a woman who attempted to "break up" with me because I failed to text her the next day after a weekend together. She said "I don't think this is good for me, I think we should stop." My response was "okay." "Okay? Okay? That's your response?" We argued for a bit after...

The question depends on which "tactics" you are using, how you use them, whether or not it defines your mode of interaction with her, and the individual girl. Continuing to be deliberately mysterious, indifferent, and aloof in order to manipulate a chase dynamic and keep her attracted to you...

The lust spark cannot be kept alive. It fades. 3-6 months. What you are now building is an emotional bond. That will be the glue of your relationship, not the flood of dopamine and oxytocin when a relationship is new and exciting and makes you feel like your high on blow. As I mentioned in...