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She sent this half hour before we were supposed to originally meet (she already flaked earlier today) I'm so sorry but I will expand to you when we meet up , I don't want to be tired the first day , I want to be nice the first meet What should I say back just ok later?

She texts me this now: I'm so sorry but I will expand to you when we meet up , I don't want to be tired the first day , I want to be nice the first meet Im not replying till later and then 'ok' is that wise?

i agree but why did she have supposedly high IL on monday? she gave me the number without asking on FB, ok maybe she was bored.. but given the flow of the convo we prob would have met that night. i just tried to be careful not looking too available so i offered tues/weds. i regret it now. strike...

yeah i agree with you, it's not a tactic but saves me the time and hassle. i think it's more why has she suddenly lost IL for an inexplicable reason.. the not knowing is what bothers me the most as at least if you know why then you can move on and improve. i dont like being lead on and then...

this one infuriates me the most. because she had high IL at least i thought on monday then suddenly became all flaky. i regret not just meeting her that night, she prob would have said yes. strike while iron's hot. i'll do that from now on but it might risk looking too eager available but it's...

yeah i guess it doesn't.. i think hamster spins IF she contacts you even to check if you're still interested and if you still dont reply she'll wonder why you're not.. i think that's where it begins.. but if the interest is too low anyway she won't. the furious part is we all never know why...

if you get flaky excuses cancelling on dates, is the best reply you can give no reply? i.e. silence. my understanding of this whole process is if she has high IL, then nothing will stop her meeting you, but if it's dwindling the excuses start to come thick and fast. this chick from facebook on...

well it's a non issue now or maybe it is.. she's flaked twice with lame excuses. and i dont know if her interest dwindled because i was coming across too available or because she didn't like where we're going and wanted to choose the place. yesterday at lunch me: meet me outside the town hall...

because i know these women from this area, i look at her photos, i see how she's dressed, i see how she suggested 'brunch at a nice place'.. she wouldn't go to a dive bar. 100%. you can say all you like 'how do you know?' i know for certain given the information i do have.. however IF she had...

this milf off facebook gave me her number immediately without asking for it, i suggested we go for a drink but didn't actually ask for the number so shows good IL, and she 'liked' my profile pic. i suggested we get together for a drink tomorrow or wednesday night by text at a place relatively...

i understand what you're saying and i accept after that point of going back saying i could do it was the mistake, i just wanted to know what i should have done at that point and you said just say 'ok let's meet some other time' she is spoiled, it isn't what i did that turned her off i dont...

i matched someone on tinder tonight, good looking iranian woman but had a fat a$$ (for some that's their thing for me not so much). i asked her where she lived in town she told me and asked me same, i knew she wanted me to say the same area as her (she's a super rich girl i could tell) and...

I agree with this entirely and have same thought process these days. Issur is I have no other options so it's more for an ego boost/self esteem boost having one potential guranteed bang on the cards..yes low IL but I know she's physically into me her type etc. .just a low quality girl. The...

ok this girl: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221313 i was supposed to have second date with this week, she was ill from our first meet now is better. i msg her on monday to meet weds, we agree a time, i tell her where to meet on weds (yesterday) and she tells me she's been really...

thankfully i said the right thing which you guys recommended so i must be getting it right now instinctively. fast forward to today, i ask her when her next day off is on her rota (she works weekends some times) and that we should get together for some food in town. she tells me 'thank you...

This is a test I think I just had a date with HB who was all over me. Back in my car she says to me 'are you looking for fun? Because if you are tell me, if you're looking for a relationship tell me because I don't want to get hurt' I get the sense that she's up for just fun she just...

I was talking to this chick on facebook about a month ago, came across bit too full on she told me this and from then on the dynamic changed.. prior she'd be asking questions etc giving me a chance so i kinda f'd it up.. from then on whenever we talked she just gave answers never asked me any...

Yeah I know where I kinda went wrong on the date, do you guys have any tips for how to control the conversation when it's a chick who keeps talking non stop from the off set? Should I just interrupt her and change it to sexual? I was on the cautious side cos I didn't want to come across...

also a different date to the one i had in the other thread, her IL was relatively high she literally broke up with her bf the day we met, but she wouldn't shut up about him getting her feelings out.. she really dominated the conversation (i do the same i talk a lot and generally overdo it so it...

just came back from another facebook date, it started off well walking up from the station to the bar up the hill but i was out of breath by the time we got there and it's like 20C outside so i'm sweating bucketloads when we get in and sit down.. i dont stop sweating for a good 30 mins so it...