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If you pay close attention, you'll notice that people with good interpersonal and conversational skills will naturally mirror each other's verbal language, body language, and energy level. People naturally match language, voice intensity, speed, etc. I don't like Ross Jefferies, because he...

Peope in big cities are cold in general. I'm from a fairly small town, where it's not uncommon to say hi to everyone who happens to pass you on the sidewalk. When I went to NYC, I was stunned by how cold some people are - but also with how I was barraged by people trying to beg me for money or...

Are you implying that you have to be Brad Pitt to approach a girl? It works far beyond 'in theory in the mind of the author'. Many many guys have had success approaching girls. I think it is only in theory in your mind that it is so impossible to do. Yes, a direct approach being successful...

If you have to ask if you've gone too far, then I can assure you that you have. C&F, just like any other conversational device such as story telling, joking, greetings, etc., is something that should be naturally a part of your personality and not what defines it. When something happens that...

I personally think it's a good tip. No way would I label any confident approach to a girl as 'AFC'. The only thing that I'd say is always AFC is letting yourself be too scared to approach so that you do nothing but stare at the beautiful girl and wish you balls to talk to her. I personally...

Well, the description of this forum is "Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice" If we're not here to talk about girls, what are we here for? :confused:

Sorry, I couldn't help myself. Really, I don't see why getting a number of the Boston T would be any different than getting a phone number off any other train. I've never been to Boston, but I can tell you from experience that public transportation is a great place to meet girls and get phone...

You gonna have a Boston T Party?

I'd conjecture that the reason that the mature man forum gets flooded with people who don't meet the age requirement is because, quite frankly, the other forums have little offer somebody who has risen above the maturity level of a high schooler. There seems to be a misunderstanding here that...

Look, guys. IT ISN'T GOING TO CHANGE Making the 1,000th poll that we need a new forum isn't going to make them put one in Here, you might find this interest. It's a post from Survivor, from May 2004 when he was a moderator in the Mature Man forum In other words, they know the...

It will keep up. People have been unhappy with the moderation here for years now. I just read a thread from May 2004 about it, and even in that thread people were already saying that they're sick of hearing about it. Just apply my philosophy for girls - which is that you can trust a person to...

A year or two? Pfft I don't plan on sticking around nearly that long. I don't know about you.

Check out this thread Getting Over Approach Anxiety-Cant Say Hi?

I can see it helped your sense of humor as well!

Gotcha. NumenMalefic = troll Don't bother starting a flame war, I already know there's no reason to respond to your messages. Take care buddy!

Well, you posted it for a reason, right? Or, like I said, you were just PMSing.

I don't really think watching movies is prerequisite towards being a PUA Fight Club is an awesome movie, and especially applicable towards anyone who can relate to Edward Norton yet admires Tyler Durden (Bradd Pitt) - if that movie isn't a metaphor for the transition from 'AFC' to PUA/DJ then...

Do you actually have a complaint about it, or are you just PMSing?

Eye contact is only foreplay to the real even, which is the approach. As soon as you've made eye contact, it's all systems go. Approach when you feel like it.

Why in the hell would you be too nervous to do it in person? I recommend you squash that fear and trepidation and just go for it - ask her in person. Say "Hey, we gotta hang out before we're both gone for break. Let's go and..." and tell her what you're gonna tell her. Set a time. I recommend...