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    52...have baby with partner?

    Answer: To keep the woman. That is my main concern - still needing to make money (probably) at age 70 when they are about to go to college. This isn't necessarily the case if I do well financially for the next five years or so. She has a mortgage free house in Singapore which can help.
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Thanks. An Asian woman 10 years younger than her will likely still want a kid. Less chance of birth defects but still not something I am really wanting (a kid). So I think ... perhaps a single Mum is OK - they have their baby need met already? Then I recall Rollo Tomassi's exhortations to avoid...
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    Thanks. " they make a big deal about something, but that's not the actual problem, it's just an opportunity to vent their frustration with the actual problem. " You sound wise. "Did you tell her no on the baby by any chance?" - You are observant that I wrote a thread on that. Thanks. I wrote...
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    I just took my live in partner (6 months live in) on a 1 week holiday around a beautiful part of Australia. The last evening was at a classy hotel at sunset overlooking the ocean (the ocean was 5 metres away). I paid for flights, rental car, all accomodation and 90% of the meals. The next day...
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    52...have baby with partner?

    How does that help?
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Well said
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    52...have baby with partner?

    T Thanks
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Great post and I think accurate
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    52...have baby with partner?

    I think you hit the nail on the head. Both options you describe are very clearly in the picture almost to the letter. I said no to a baby so she is leaving me despite saying I am the best boyfriend she has ever had.
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Clear advice all...will be risky and if baby actually born and healthy then likely draining. I already have one 10 year old who lives overseas so I have that joy (real joy, I love her, and also the awareness of the difficulties of a relationship ending when a child involved if not from same...
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Not open to adoption. Thanks.
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Good advice
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Too tiring?
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Hi gentlemen I have just turned 52 and my 45.5 year old Asian girlfriend wants to have a baby. We live together. She had two miscarriages when she was married 8 years ago...and is childless. She was devastated and still wants a kid (marriage ended as he cheated). I feel if I dont, the...
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    How deal with alpha widow?

    Top recomendation for Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. It is BRILLIANT. Full of wisdom and well written - brilliant stuff that would be hard to get published as somewhat politically incorrect but it rings of truth. Get it and read it.
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    How deal with alpha widow?

    Thanks @pipeman84 . The Kindle version of that book looks really badly formatted but will try it. Thanks
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    How many chicks have you slept with?

    NYC is the most promiscuous city I have lived in by a factor of 10. It is unbelievable. London much much harder. Anywhere else orher than Asia add more "much" to the harder.
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    How many chicks have you slept with?

    In small towns or outside Asia or the US I think those numbers would be impossible. Amazing.
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    How many chicks have you slept with?

    How the heck do you get 30 in less than a year? Big US city, in your 20s, Tinder? What amazed me (in a sad way) is that many women will be doing the same thing. If you/one becomes a monogamous serious boyfriend with one of them, what's the chance they can go from riding the carousel to being...
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    The One that changed Everything

    " Once you truly become “red pilled“, you can never go back. And while it’s good to have that knowledge, to understand more about women and the world, sadly, you’re never quite as capable of falling completely in love with another woman" - True
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