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So, 1,5 month later. I'm feeling better. Plating 2 other hot women. And meeting up with her tomorrow. During this time she contacted me several times which I brushed off, then she liked my tinder-profile and I messaged her that she accidentally liked my profile. One week later she messaged me...

I've dated an Filipina for 4+ years. In this particular case: Yes, she probably got offended and felt belittled by your questions. It's not a question about asking about the past. Everybody in the Philippines speaks english, asking about cultural differences probably made her feel bad because...

You are only 23, not a great year to have a relationship expecting it to last for years. But for your question, it's possible: If you have an endgame which is to close the distance gap eventually. What it takes is enormous of trust between you to, and of course how she is as a person. I had...

So. I've been better everyday. When we were together she told me about some shady stuff about her landlord. I work as a freelance journalist and started to investigate it, I didn't get a newspaper hooked back in the summer. But by chance, two news papers contacted me last week and I've been...

Of course. I replied to her in the morning. Saying Im Happy you finally bought a new apartment and hope you had a great evening. And asking in which area the apartment is located.. no reply..

So she sent me a message right after midnight at NYE updating me about some stuff considering the abortionand that she finally bought an apartment And saying: “Everything is fine with me, I’m alright. Everything feels good and I’m actually really happy! Thinking about you from time to time and...

Thank you for the reply, and you are correct. What do you mean with decompartmentalization. she didn’t contact me for one week plus now, so I guess so.

Ah. I think it’s both of it in this case. Lost virginity early on and then hanged out with a party crew and made a thing (she and her friend) of ****ing every weekend. Even contest who could **** as many as possible on a day. It’s such a a shame, world losing a otherwise smart and hot female

What does “the mileage” mean?

I was referring to what my niece wished for when getting a boyfriend , but yes you’re right ;)

Also push and pull / kind but firm , preselection etc

Yes. That's my plan. I'm leaving for a sunnier country for a month and will in meantime also talk with a psychologist. And over a woman like this with her notch count and level of crazy - that takes some decompartmentalization. Do you mind elaborating?

Hehe her father is a psychiatrist, and she works at his company. Yes, that's a general saying that psychologists are the ones with greater problems, and looking for answers to their problems through others. I didn't get that sense about her tough, she liked the power of feeling "needed" by the...

My 6 year old niece were at my place and this conversation took form: "Do you have a boyfriend?" " Yes and no " " What do you mean? " " There's this boy who asked me to be his girlfriend, but I didn't want to" " Why not?" " He's not my type, he jumps in front of me and trying to kiss me " " How...

Why do you think so? Low self esteem / ego / sadists ? Good luck at NYE.

Yes. She wrote in her diary that she needs a therapist, not being one hehe.

Not really other options. I could have if I went for it. Will start soon.

Well, I will be the first who would say I've been naive and ignoring the red flags. By today I am a bit amazed about what happened. I'm a bit angry both on myself and her. And my ego is a bit bruised, and a part of me want to seek revenge because of the way the relationship ended. I would like...

Crazy number right, I had no plans to consider LTR in the beginning. I have my share of history as well witch would make many people back off, but I dealt with that. I think it's a great warning but it could also be contextual and "healed" from. In the beginning she did exhibit signs that she...

I see your point, but I don't think high notch count is a disqualifier per se. But her way of normalizing, rationlizing it I was wondering if my neutral response to her messages were seen as an closure for her, from me. I operated on the theory that; despite being angry and so on, was also...