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One thing is that I (stupidly) moved into her house, so I was on her turf so to speak. Then I was getting upset with the constant attacks my wife was making on me via the police, the courts and online harassment. I didn't cope with it well and frankly I think the new girl eventually got sick of...

Scenario 2 was my former wife, who was, as it transpired, a truly bad person. When my marriage ended I got into a relationship with a younger woman and all was great at first, I had the lead. But I lost frame, partly because my ex-wife was giving me such a hard time with the divorce, making...

It's a bit of a conundrum really. Sometimes I think zero tolerance is the best policy, other times I just think it's better to ignore and/or avoid conflict. Problem is, a lot of women nowadays push their luck and then burst into tears when you have a go back. So, it's a difficult balance.

They seem like pretty severe examples, especially those described by AmsterdamAssassin but would you regard as being spoken to in a harsh or dismissive tone as disrespect? Personally, I do but I wonder if I'm too sensitive and should just roll with it a bit more. In my last relationship the...

Got it. Thank you

Sorry if I'm being naive but how would you define disrespect? Can you give some examples please.

Thank you for your thoughtful and fulsome response, Ma'am. Food for thought.

Good interview, worth watching. The guy tells itlike it is.

This is interesting. I'm British and owning property is a bit of a fetish here in te UK - 'an Englihman's home is his castle' being an oft used saying here. But what you're describing sounds attractive as it gives you flexibility. Would you be as comfortable with such an arrangement if you...

I would tend to agree. I can't remember meeting a woman in her 30s who'd never had a boyfriend. I'd say that extremely rare.

To be fair, it cuts both ways. I don't really want to be dating a woman who's taller than me, it just doesn't feel right to. I think most guys would say the same.

Great post, spot on. Its much more difficult to have a traditional 'Mistress' nowadays. In the 70s and 80s, maybe up to the 90s you could run almost parallel lives but social media, mobile phones and technology has stymied that sort of lifestyle for most married guys. Yet another way that...

That captures it exactly :up:

Why would you want to be her friend?

Yeah, I feel confident and I'm a decent looking bloke so I do OK. I'also very into clothes and look good in suits, sports jackets, etc. Much more so than when I was bigger - although you do attract more attention from certain types of women when you're more muscular, I agree. Nowadays, by...

I'm not unfit or 'non muscular'. I use weights, I run, I do calisthenics. I'm in good shape. I just prefer to be lean and healthy nowadays. I used to big and bulky back in the day and, you're right, you do get attention, at least from certain women on the strength of that alone.

I have some chocolate at the weekend but try to stay off junk otherwise. Also I don't drink alcohol nowadays, which used to increase my propensity to eat badly - both when drinking and as a rsult of hangovers.

You're going to get a lot of attention at 6'3" and nearly 300lbs, based simply on sheer size. You have got to be tall to carry that kind of mass though, as the poster above says. Short and bulky often isn't a good look, I'm not what you'd call short (I'm 5'11") but I simply coudn't carry that...

Also, having your arse dragged through the courts by a woman is hugely humiliating. She gets to lie, cry and accuse you of whatever she wants. The judge effectively becomes the head of the household, you're like a kid in front of the headmaster at school. But you're playing for seriously high...

Sure I can. But basically that entails putting myself on trial for the alleged offences because her defence would be that what she is telling the truth. Again, 51%, balance of probability, no jury. Then if I win I get very little compensation as here main asset is the family home and no judge...