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One second she's asking me about how many girls I take back and then the next she's asking about sharing an apartment...that's confusing a$$ ****. Right?? When I'm over at her apartment, that'll be the telling point. No one invites a guy over just to eat and chat...

Well, it's the 4th time I've seen her. We both want to be closer to our respective jobs, and the foreigner district happens to be that place. And obviously I give off a comfort and clean vibe to her.. I'll need to make a move fast..because the apartment scenario wreaks of friend-zoned...

This new girl...4th time with her in less than 2 weeks... she asks me tonight...first question: have you brought any girls back to your current apartment so far? Within 15 minutes shes asks/tells 2nd question: we should seriously look for an apartment together near the foreigner/party...

I got a meeting in order...not on the day I wanted though. I asked her if Saturday late afternoon/evening worked, she said no but said friday after work was good. I have dinner plans on friday so said later at about 8-830 would be great..she agreed and is excited, yada yada. She then asked if...

I'm in a big city in China for work..23 yo I met this girl online (not a dating site, instead a City events /news/classifieds site) in a forum for a particular hobby we both share. I contacted her privately thru the site, and after about a dozen messages online, we made plans to meet up. She...

In China (I live in a major city there) it is rampant and I have witnessed it live at least a half a dozen times. The instance that sticks out is one morning in the crowded subway this girl is just wailing on her significant other, and he's just kind of taking it/dodging it...but since the car...

At the dinner and apartment warming I realized... I honestly did not see a whole lot of what I thought I had seen in her this whole time...maybe it was her new haircut...or her friends which overall did not impress me. I kinda was surprised, but I didn't ever really get any itch. I can be...

Ha, of course of course of course during a social get-together I know nothing will happen..but I will be on the look out for those subtle signs that she is still attracted to me physically..and during our conversation I gonna tell her what can of escapades I've been up to lately..see what her...

Well, over the past 10 days or so I've been doing quite well and not hung up on the one girl. I sent her a nice birthday message, and we went back and forth on text a bit, but a meeting was not arranged (my missed opps with her still irk me a tad, but I'm not desperate..she's not my only option...

Haven't checked here in a few days.. Going to contact her tomorrow and see how it goes.. didn't want to contact her, but it seems that if I want to get what I want, maybe the being patient stuff won't work. Seems to be the "friend" stuff I was talking about wasn't as strong as I thought. Tho...

yuppaz-Yep, you got it. She seemed to always be telling me I'm too patient and calculated. Thanks d!ckmojo again... I’m not looking for a relationship with her…just want to capitalize and atone for my miscues. Sure, FWB's for a short while wouldn't be a bad prize. And I know she knows...

Thanks for the comments guys.. d!ckmojo: You're absolutely right...I was a ***** through and through. I'm not usually that way..but I've turned into quite a bit of one here in this country..I need to change that. I'm usually a soft heart..but here I've become mushy to no end, worrying...

Sorry for the length...some of it is in part to not leave out any possible key details. The other reason is for my own "healing" process, which you will learn (if you read this monster) is going quite well. In Chinese city: Her: Chinese girl, 23 Me: American guy, 23 She works...