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I didn’t mean that exactly. If I make a statement or a smiley I don’t necessarily expect a response. But if I ask a question or call and ask someone to return my call, I won’t chase after them. Period.

I for one have just adopted a strict no double texting rule. Ever. It’s disrespectful not to respond. She doesn’t respond, she loses my attention.

Yup. I’m convinced most women use OLD mainly for validation. That’s why so many women will give you their number but you’ll never actually meet them.

Been there, done that, got the t shirt. These types are a complete and utter waste of time.

This is of particular interest to me bc I’ve always struggled with flirting/escalation. Often women say/communicate that they didn’t know if I’m interested in them until I kissed them. A chick had me over to her place on the first meet up after we had several FaceTime dates first due to...

Following. Good to know a 47 yr old can still pull hot young Yoga pant ass. I may have to check out my local yoga studios now

Keep in mind it’s not a bad thing if a woman isn’t sure of YOUR interest level. The key is to gain HER interest in you.

How do you meet women on FB? Do you mean FB dating…or cold messaging? If the latter what do you say? I’d think most women would be creeped out by random messages from strangers…

I tend to agree with this. Seems many here are too quick to NEXT a woman if she doesn’t start pursuing right away. Many women won’t put in much effort at first—they’re just as if not more afraid of rejection than men. A man reaching out after a few days certainly won’t be a dealbreaker. I...

Great post. I’m in much the same boat as you...super focussed on my goals and enjoying the freedom of single life. Any women along the way are just garnish on an already tasty steak.

Well said sir. If a man lets himself be bothered by the whimsical ways of women, he won’t have a very happy life (whether in a relationship or not). As a side effect, this indifference is a massive turn on for women.

This is a good thread. Reminds me that I am waaaay too nice with women and must change that to see results. Women will usually be nice on dates (niceness is typically a female trait), and it’s hard for the nice guy to not get sucked in by that. “Frame control”

THIS. Women tend to judge almost everything in their lives by feel. And a 6’ woman is too tall for many men, so she may settle for a shorter guy

I wouldn’t read so much into her behaviour—you’re overthinking this and getting over invested. The family visit may be BS or it may be legitimate. I’d reply to her question, then leave it at that. Hit her up again in a week or so and see what she says, then you’ll have your answer. Women at...

Exactly this. You should be giving at least a few days notice. If she replies with anything other than a solid YES, you say “why don’t we do it some other time, when you are more sure of your schedule.” And leave it.

Oh don’t get those knickers in a knot now bud..Just go jerk off on your bed to insta-hoes…that avatar must be a self portrait

Didn’t mean it like that at all. Rather, what woman reaches out after a date to give a guy the LJBF and ask to hang out? Doesn’t make any sense to me. Maybe if they’re 20 or something?

Sounds like you met a complete and utter nut job. Seems you dodged a bullet here

I married one. Nothing was ever enough for her. No matter what she could always find fault in my behaviour. Never again.

dude, chicks believe in all that BS