I go to a weekly hot yoga class (yes, it is as glorious as you would think) and there are 2 girls who are on the hook. By this I mean I there is some effort on their part to make conversation, and we have good chemistry. They have both even initiated conversations at times, and they both enjoy talking to me. The thing is, so far, they haven't attended the class at the same time (since I have begun talking to them) so I haven't had to talk to one while the other one is near. This is bound to change. Also, they are both mid 20's, educated and very, very cute. I'm 47 (they don't know this yet). Probably no LTR in the cards because of this, so there's that.
Backstory:
Girl 1: After class last week we were making small talk and when the conversation kept going, I straight up asked her to grab a drink, to which she immediately said yes, let's do it. We had a good time throwing darts and drinking, she talked and giggled for 3 hours straight. It turns out that she just broke up with her bf and moved back to town. She doesn't have many, if any friends here. Part of me thinks I should have gone for the gusto and tried to be her rebound sex doll, but I rolled with the aloof I can take it or leave it game, which has worked well for me in the past in long-game type situations. At the end of our night, I didn't go for the kiss (although I think she was wanting it, because she lingered and nervously "waited" for it). She said that we should do this again in an excited tone. There is sexual tension with this one, but not at a boiling point yet.
Girl2: She initiated our first interaction, and has even waited for me after class so we can talk more. We have extended conversation about her life and she has asked questions about my life too, but I haven't asked her for drinks yet. I have her laughing and smiling a lot. She is going on a bachelorette vacation (yikes) and is excited to show me pictures when she returns. This will lead to darts and drinks when I see her next. Hopefully she has dried out by then. She said I will see you in a couple weeks in an excited tone. There is sexual tension with this one, almost at the boiling point.
How in the hell should I play this when they both attend the class at the same time and both wait for me after class to go have drinks (or at least talk)? This will happen. And how to play it after this situation happens? I know some of you guys have some great ideas on how to work through this...
Backstory:
Girl 1: After class last week we were making small talk and when the conversation kept going, I straight up asked her to grab a drink, to which she immediately said yes, let's do it. We had a good time throwing darts and drinking, she talked and giggled for 3 hours straight. It turns out that she just broke up with her bf and moved back to town. She doesn't have many, if any friends here. Part of me thinks I should have gone for the gusto and tried to be her rebound sex doll, but I rolled with the aloof I can take it or leave it game, which has worked well for me in the past in long-game type situations. At the end of our night, I didn't go for the kiss (although I think she was wanting it, because she lingered and nervously "waited" for it). She said that we should do this again in an excited tone. There is sexual tension with this one, but not at a boiling point yet.
Girl2: She initiated our first interaction, and has even waited for me after class so we can talk more. We have extended conversation about her life and she has asked questions about my life too, but I haven't asked her for drinks yet. I have her laughing and smiling a lot. She is going on a bachelorette vacation (yikes) and is excited to show me pictures when she returns. This will lead to darts and drinks when I see her next. Hopefully she has dried out by then. She said I will see you in a couple weeks in an excited tone. There is sexual tension with this one, almost at the boiling point.
How in the hell should I play this when they both attend the class at the same time and both wait for me after class to go have drinks (or at least talk)? This will happen. And how to play it after this situation happens? I know some of you guys have some great ideas on how to work through this...
